Do women secretly fantasize about doing this? Or is it something they only do for other reasons other than physical pleasure? I recently saw a movie about the Lifestyle and while the husbands seemed to be into swinging, the women in the movie looked to be doing it only for their men. Just a curious guy. In some ways, it would seem to be neat to have all these men desiring you and wanting to please you and give you attention. It just doesn't look like it ends up that way.