Promise rings

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  1. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    What are your guys/gals thoughts on promise rings?


    Basically me and this girl in school have spent some time together, we see each other everyday...really like each other.
    She is graduating college in may and i will be here for another 2 yrs...yes she is older
     
  2. KERS

    KERS OT Supporter

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    Is 'this girl' even your girlfriend? All you say is that she's 'this girl' and that you 'see each other everyday'. What kind of relationship do you have? Surely doesn't sound like you're in any sort of position to consider any sort of ring.

    And plus, I think 'promise rings' are a crock of shit anyways. The only rings that matter are Engagement rings and Wedding rings.

    Good luck with that.
     
  3. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    Were exclusive, she doesnt want the title of bf or gf because she is leaving school....
     
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    How long have you been together?
     
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    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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  6. lauren

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    eh, i dont like them.
    and if she doesnt want the commitment of bf/gf, i doubt shell like the commitment of engaged to be engaged.
     
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    Promise rings always seemed like such a highschool thing to me, like being <18 years old and not able to get married by law.

    In this case if the girl doesn't want the "gf title" then maybe a ring is not a good idea since it shows a committment she may not want at this time.
     
  8. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    good point
     
  9. z31maniac

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    Big +1

    If she is afraid of the title then the ring is NOT going to be appreciated.
     
  10. Tex

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    Ding ding ding, we have a winner.
     
  11. bandwagon

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    "she doesnt want the title of bf or gf because she is leaving school"

    Brace Yourself. :hsugh:
     
  12. RedVsBlue

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    Promise rings have always been a no no for me.

    I just never saw a point, but hey if thats what you want to waste your money on, go for it.
     
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    i think theyre dumb....its ot like the ring is going to solve problems for you or save your relationship....
     
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    Watch the earlier seasons of the 70's Show.:noes:
     
  16. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    I'm not a fan of promise rings. Then again I'm not much of a jewelry girl anyway.

    I'd be holdin out for awhile. If you make it another year then rationally consider where you are at in the relationship.
     

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