So i just went back and looked at my old post on 03-28-2007 and thought id make an update. I hadn't looked at this list in a while and am pretty surprised how well I hit most the major points. So this took ~4 months of going at it pretty hard. Im estimating i talked to about around 40ish girls to the point where they would have given me the digits if I'd wanted them. Only had one false start. She was very hot and very boring. edit: the more i think about it the more i wish id stuck it out with that one long enough to hit it my original theory that if i avoided random sex on the way would leave me more motivated sucked. The general theory that the more sex you have the better off you are is the way to go. 03-28-2007--> hard standards: smart, pretty, fun not a pain in the ass. tantrums/outburst/negativity should be very rare.flexible. Cant be too uptight. must be socially adaptable and not freak out if we need to think on our feet and change plans, or are running late or take a wrong turn. Must have a reasonable amount of flexible time to devote to the relationship. Likes sex and has positive and open attitude about it. Giving. Cant be selfish or lazy. Can't be one of those people who lives for "their shows" or schedules a day around what’s on TVShould go to the gym, or be open to starting.no kidssane, reasonableladylike when it comes to bodily functions. No smokers. gross. flexible standards: has own cardown for anything anytime anywhere sexual attitude has some idea what its like to pay your own way and handle your own business.Has some real passionate interest or hobby that can be somewhat shared. decent social life/friends funny frequent orgasms from intercourse (this isn’t all that flexible ) would be nice: Video gamer gym rat working on itHot. hot face, nice hair, large breasts, round ass, flat stomach would be nice to all but large breast Compatible taste in music would be nice, her introducing me to cool new punk/hardcore/indie would be awesome. Dresses well and with some obvious style.A bit of badgirl edginess. Style/music/lifestyle/attitude. Most super good girls bore me to tears.I have a party hard attitude and neurotic body builder wannabe diet and dedication. I want a girl that’s down for last call shots and kegs and beer pong, but doesn’t give me too hard a time when I take a few months off booze Some kinda workable compromise here would be nice.