Me and my ex have been apart for almost 4 years just after my son was born. I have had my son every weekend since he was old enough to not need his mum for breast milk etc. Currently i am temporarily working down the coast near my sons house so my ex said i could stay at her place to save me travelling long distances every day to and from work... and also to be able to spend every day with my son. I have not been involved with anyone since my son was born up until a month ago when i hooked up with a great girl who i have known through work for about 8 months. <start rant> Last night I was taking my son and Sasha (my girl) out for ice cream at baskin n robins (yummy).. My ex started having a go at me saying that she doesn't want me taking evan out with Sasha. I told her how much we like each other and its not just some one night stand relationship (which i have never done or will do). Things got rather heated and i still went to get ice cream. Then this morning comes when my son tells his mum that Sasha got him a balloon, my ex went off saying "i thought you were only going to get ice cream". I told her that we picked up Sasha, went and got ice cream then went back to Sasha's for about 15mins. Evan and sasha played with a balloon for a bit then we went home to bed. She didn't say anything back, just gave me a deathstare. I am just wanting some input on this whole scenario, the ex has had a few partners during the last 4 years. Sasha knows that my son is #1 in my life and they get along really great. Do you think I am in the wrong, or that my ex just needs to get over it and get a life?</end rant> *cliffs* Been apart with sons mother for 4 years. Staying at ex's house while working nearby. Ex doesn't want me to take my son to get ice cream with my SO. Am I not doing the right thing by my son? Or is my ex just jealous or insecure about something?