Its a long story but ill cut it down as much as possible. Everything has been going great with my gf. But last summer (we both study in india but go back home to the states every so often) after we came back to start school up again we had a discussion about how she isnt ready to settle down and she isnt sure about things anymore. Her bone of contention is that she is only 20 and hasnt expierenced life yet. The other thing is that due to cultural reasons her parents..and to some extent mine as well have to approve of whoever we decide to settle down with. At this point of time i dont think i am and it seems like she agrees. So fast forward to just 2 days go..this all comes to a head..and she asks for a "break" and we decided (well her more than me) to go on one. Now ive read through the threads on here about this situation but i honestly believe there isnt another guy in the picture (well right now at least) and she just wants to step back and think things over. But She said that she doesnt wanna break up though. I guess im at a stage in my life where im thinking about the long term..she used to be but now she said that was a mistake. So now im at my wits end as to what to do..i mean i dont wanna lose her..its like im losing my best friend also (. Im just confused about everything..