problems getting up

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  1. Zemo

    Zemo n00b of the year

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    So, I've sorta been making out with this chick every single night for about a week, several hours each time. Last night she started to take it to the next level, but I couldn't get an erection! What the hell? She's amazingly sexy, and I was very turned on, but whe the hell? Was I trying too hard? Was there just too much foreplay? Man I'm confused...She was rubbing me pretty good (through the shorts) and nothing....no reaction at all.
     
  2. Ulrich

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    you're thinking about it too much... u need to relax and just live in the moment and not think about it too much.
     
  3. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    think about her body instead of yourself. it really helps.
     
  4. TankedOutSuicide

    TankedOutSuicide These aren't the DJs were looking for...

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    I sometimes have this problem as well.......usally it happens when i meet a new girl. I think you might be a lil shy at first but after being more comfortable with her iam sure you can get it up.
     
  5. Killgunner

    Killgunner OT Supporter

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    I get this problem when I'm drunk... that is always a problem...
     
  6. kronik85

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    hehe, the one time i've ever had trouble with getting up/staying up was in a case somewhat similar to yours.

    we were at her place, and she was being very teasing. making out with me for 5 minutes, getting me hard, then "losing interest" and watching TV. i'd get soft and then a few minutes later she'd do it again. she did it a couple times before starting to give me a blowjob. well, i think my penis had gotten the idea of getting soft 3 minutes after getting hard and he went soft while she was giving me a blowjob. talk about embarassing.

    maybe with all the heavy make out, and no results, your penis has kinda given up on you like mine did. i wouldn't worry about it too much, i pushed it to the back of my mind and it's never happenede since.
     
  7. dvd

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    thats happening to me right now :( i think i'm too nervous or too self concious about myself still.
     

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