so i've been seeing this girl for awhile now and on two seperate occasions (her grad/bday) I've gotten her gifts and never looked at the cost its not like i spent a ton on her (only about 800 or so) on gifts but it was recently my bday and she never got me anything. She told me she was going to buy me something then made the excuse she didnt have the money and would her next check then proceeded to go spend the rest of her money shopping and goign out to the bar. Her next check comes and the same thing happens and i make a comment about it and she tells me im being greedy because the gift she was going to get me was expensive but i said i didnt care about what i got cause its the thought that counts. So here we are my bday was on the 25th of september and nothing except a fight about me being greedy and me wanting her to be broke till her next check. The response I gave was dont expect me to buy you anything on our anniversery or christmas then. Did i handle this situation properly? I am pretty rattled by how she goes shopping and out and spends money on drinks for her friends and i dont get a bday present when I made sure i had money for her bday/grad. We have been going out for 2 years now. All other bdays/etc I've gotten her stuff on my bday/xmas she got her parents to buy ti and paid them back (or so she says'). Ive been in school for 4 years work p/t but make more then her cause I own a company pay for all the dinners/going out we do. I've tried talking to her about it but constantly get the "you want me to be broke for 2 weeks// your being greedy&selfish// bullshit" and I feel like im being petty but i dunno its a shitty situation I would of been fine with a card and dinner but didnt get a thing from her..