Problem with a friend that is a girl

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  1. Casino

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    OK so there is this girl that I met at college and I've known her for about 3 weeks. We were good friends and all and thats it. We would just hang out and eat together and party and shit. The other night I got real drunk and was a huge asshole to her. It started out as text messages. I asked her if she was drinking and she said no because she has class early. I reply saying thats what I thought bitch.

    SHe texts me back and is mad, I tell her lets meet outside and talk. So we meet outside. I don't even remember what I said but she stormed off in like 10 seconds. That was the end of it that night.

    THe next morning I felt horrible. I was such an asshole to her, and I don't even know what I said, I wanted to apologize. My cell broke so I can't call her, and I know it would piss her off if I just showed up at her dorm. So I sent her a private facebook message saying I'm sorry and want to see her in person so we can talk. She does not reply to that.

    I saw her twice in person walking by and she knows I was there but ignores me and looks away. I feel so bad because I really like her (as a friend) and don't want one night to fuck up our relationship. What do you think I should do?
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Maybe you should cut down your drinking....Sounds like you turn into an unnecessary asshole.
     
  3. schmooot

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    give it a couple days. She is really pissed at you now which is why she is not talking to you. SHe will cool down though and then you can apologize for being an asshole when she decides to talk
     
  4. Casino

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    I'm not normally like that, it was just that one night, the combination of wayyy to much alcohol and being mad at something else made me a bad asshole.
     
  5. Casino

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    OK so until then, when I walk by her, should I attempt to say hi or anyting?
     
  6. Jabbermewmew

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    I'm sure she'll gladly let the relationship die if you don't do anything. You broke it so you either fix it or lose her as a friend... unless she really likes you
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: All alcoholics say that, and you said your friends think you should go to rehab :hsugh:
     
  8. Casino

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    That is why I want to do something! But how am I suppose to fix it if she won't listen?
     
  9. noodle

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    wait a day or two and then try to talk to her. or maybe write her a note? just trying to think of what else you can try since your cell is broken and it sounds like she won't even look at you.
     
  10. mrchina

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    Well you've made posts about how you drink 15 beers a night, got drunk for 23 days in a row and didn't go to many classes/do much homework, and now you're posting about how you were very mean to a good friend. Maybe she wrote you off a long time ago but didn't have the heart to really let you know and now that you made it obvious you can't control your alcohol she wrote you off for good.

    I'd take this as some sort of sign bro.

    Actually a lot of your posts state how you are drunk, and you even trashed your hallway in a dorm building. You're also a freshmen.

    You sound like you really need help dude. You're "that guy" that nobody really likes and you should really check yourself before you wreck yourself. I'd write you off too if I didn't know you for that long. Further, if your FRIENDS are telling you to go to AA, and your friends know you better then anyone, it's really something you should pay attention to.
     
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    You sound like one of those sloppy drunk kids that id nudge my boys to start shit with so we could fuck you up.. honestly if you want to still drink moderate yourself, if you have friends like mine that power hour/funnel etc. that means that thats all the drinking you should do, dont be doing shots or drinking beers other than that.
     
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    lol thats hilarious.. being an asshole is so much fun sometimes :bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:
     
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    lol, you sound like one of those pussies that has to have his friends hold him back because lords know you arent going to do anything by yourself :bowdown::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd: Once I read his thread about how his friends all want him to go to AA I was like :ugh:

    He sounds in denial to the max and needs to cut down.
     
  15. Casino

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    ok I know i drink too much, but I am 100% sure she did not write my off before. Just the day before, she wanted to get dinner together and go out later together. I just fucked up badly. I know I have to cut back on the drinking and I will. I'm just asking for advice on how I can talk to her. That is it.
     
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    Didnt mean to come off that way.. Im actually the one who usually starts and ends the shit.. obviously you are one of those people who are either pacifist yourself or have worthless friends :o
     
  17. mrchina

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    Sometimes in order to understand the number two, you have to realize that 1+1 is what you have to add to get to that answer.
     
  18. Abomb

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    i am one of those people that lifts weights 4 times a week and handles his own business :ugh:
     
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    Here's what happened:

    This girl has standards for who she hangs out with associates with. You didn't meet them. So...you have two options. You either change to meet those standards, or you forget about the girl.

    For the record, I would do exactly the same thing. Anyone who I thought to be a friend who got drunk and was an asshole to me would lose the privilege of my friendship immediately.
     
  20. Jack Horner

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    Wow :hsugh:
     
  21. Abomb

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    i was being facetious :)
     
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    if i were in your situation i would see her in the hall and block her. make her talk to you thats what i would do with all of my friends. or send her flowers with an apology card because she is a girl and she will think that is sweet no matter what you think. so yea.
     
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    we dont drop the f-bomb in here
     
  24. Toda Party

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    Why don't you do her a favor and leave her alone?
     
  25. Casino

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    Just to update, I finally got her to talk to me and we are cool now. She's over it and we good. The alcohol isn't a problem because I'm over that phase.
     

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