Problem I thought would never occur

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  1. riddic1985

    riddic1985 New Member

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    Ok me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month now and we started having sex. Well we gradually built it up. The problem is i cant stay hard while having sex and i have no idea why. I mean she gets me hard from just making out with her. And she has no problem getting me off froma blowjob (which by the way are Awesome). But when we start actually having intercourse I am hard in the beginning then i put on the condom and it starts to go down. We start screwing and it stays hard for a while but as soon as we go to change positions im done. We are using the ultra thin trojans and it really feels great but I cant keep it hard enough to cum. We are both each others first and she is getting to where it really feels good to her but she gets dissapointed when i dont cum and thinks its her but i know thats not true i mean she gets me hard from a simple kiss. Im thinking about trying a supplement or something. Anyone have any recommendations I was reading about horny goat weed anyone use it before and have opinions. Please help I dont want our sex life to be bad everything else is perfect. Thanks.
     
  2. Ryuhei

    Ryuhei Oh gawd

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    Does that mean you have intercourse for a bit BEFORE you have a condom on? Do you think that's smart?
     
  3. Jaccordan

    Jaccordan Guest

    i dont think that was his question :rolleyes:
     
  4. Ryuhei

    Ryuhei Oh gawd

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    OK so give him an answer.
     
  5. Jaccordan

    Jaccordan Guest

    go to a vitamin shop or wlamart and buy some DHEA and Fenugreek....

    try that for a week or two and see how things are going
     
  6. Shelby500

    Shelby500 New Member

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    horny goat weed?

    edit- opps didnt see that you already thought about that. yea give it a try heard it works
     
  7. kronik85

    kronik85 New Member

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    go buy a cock ring.
     
  8. kronik85

    kronik85 New Member

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    oh yea, and i wouldn't suggest running for supplements or tools to keep urself hard after the condom comes on. you've JUST started having sex, you probably had never had a condom on before this i'm guessing?

    try this, go get the cheapest condoms you can find (go to plannedparenthood, i actualy like some of their selection where i live). go watch some porn, put on a condom and jack off. simulate the same stopping/switch position point and concentrate on maintaining erection/staying hard. odds are you can do it easily, you're just nervous because you're with a girl normaly. once you can do it with the condom on while masturbating, you'll have the confidence to switch position with your girlfriend with the condom on.

    it's all in ur head man.
     
  9. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Same things happens to everyone, wether they admit it or not. Shit just browse the vag, there are hundreds of threads on the same topic. Answer: Its normal, you dont need supliments, or vitamins, or anything. You just need to chill and wait till next time.
     
  10. Ryuhei

    Ryuhei Oh gawd

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    I agree (even though kronik85 is a jerk-ass mofo ;) ).
     

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