This happened to my friend not me btw. Ok so my mate is with this girl he is madly in love with they are together for 5 years now, since they were about 14 - 15. A couple years ago she cheated on him just by kissing a guy a few times. He gets angry they fight a lot they sort it out all good again. Over the last year or so its been a rocky relationship and finally it ends last week because he cant take it any more and also thinks he might end up cheating on her and doesnt want to hurt her etc its best to break up basically. So they do and they are both very upset the girl is crying for a while hating it. its weird blah blah. the guy is upset thinking if hes done the wrong thing and worried hes hurt her. Than he finds out tonight that shes actually been cheating on him for some time now with a guy from university. He is now in a complete rage and is all fucked up. God dam women annoy me sometimes. Cliffs: Guy ends 5 year relationship because he doesnt wanna hurt girl by cheating on her he wants to move on. finds out she has been cheating on him for quite a while. is all crazy now.