Pretty fucked up situation, thought i would post for reactions.

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  1. SirPidgeon

    SirPidgeon OT Supporter

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    This happened to my friend not me btw.

    Ok so my mate is with this girl he is madly in love with they are together for 5 years now, since they were about 14 - 15. A couple years ago she cheated on him just by kissing a guy a few times. He gets angry they fight a lot they sort it out all good again.

    Over the last year or so its been a rocky relationship and finally it ends last week because he cant take it any more and also thinks he might end up cheating on her and doesnt want to hurt her etc its best to break up basically. So they do and they are both very upset the girl is crying for a while hating it. its weird blah blah. the guy is upset thinking if hes done the wrong thing and worried hes hurt her.

    Than he finds out tonight that shes actually been cheating on him for some time now with a guy from university. He is now in a complete rage and is all fucked up. God dam women annoy me sometimes.


    Cliffs: Guy ends 5 year relationship because he doesnt wanna hurt girl by cheating on her he wants to move on. finds out she has been cheating on him for quite a while. is all crazy now.
     
  2. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    Typical bullshit from attention seeking whores.

    He needs to drop her completely and move on with his life/
     
  3. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Just tell him to move on with his life. She obviously isnt worth his 'love', attention, or time any more.

    Fake people.
     
  4. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    He should marry that one...
     
  5. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

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    Sounds like 2 typical immature people...
     
  6. SirPidgeon

    SirPidgeon OT Supporter

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    Yeah hes moved on any way. well not completely moved on but hes definatly out of her life etc. But its crap cause hes all depressed now thinking why the fuck she would do this and etc. Im friends with the girl to so yeah im just worried about him. Bloody women always wanting more
     
  7. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    Its not going to be easy to just move on but he's definitely better off.
     
  8. THoC

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    lesson learned. bitch cheated on him once she'll do it again.
     
  9. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

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    Do you blame them? I mean an attractive woman can always get more. There's always another man around the corner wanting to give an attractive woman attention. If you knew you would never get caught robbing a bank, would you still do it?
     
  10. saosko

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    Wow this situation is so unique, great story! :hsugh:
     
  11. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :werd: I like your responses...I actually think if men had it easy like we do, they would cheat all the fucking time.
     
  12. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Should make it that much easier for him to

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  13. BoomBoomBoy

    BoomBoomBoy Guest

    She actually did him a favor.
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :dunno: She's a cunt, but he's also the moron who stayed with her that long becauise he was too pussy to just break up with her.
     
  15. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    I think is generally fear the individual feels for being "alone" and not feeling the "comfort" one gets with a steady relationship.
     
  16. Specialist23

    Specialist23 OT Supporter

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    i personally think that our culture now has a lot to do with it as well. it used to be that people respected the boundaries of a committed relationship a lot more. even marriages today by a lot of people's standards wouldn't stop them from sleeping around.

    not to say that i'm perfect by any means, i'm just saying that's what seems to be what our culture has turned in to.
     
  17. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    She had already cheated on him before... Did he think she was going to magically change and become a good person? :rofl: if they cheat on you once then they'll do it again..
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    they do :hsugh:
     
  19. Sirian

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    He's going to get angry, depressed, etc. It's all part of the grieving process. It's normal for him to act this way, the easiest thing is to break all contact with her and focus on himself to make himself happy again and get back to a "normal" life without him.

    It takes time, especially with a 5 year long relationship. But they are all still young (19-20?) so there is a LONG life still ahead of them.
     

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