pregnant or mind games

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  1. dude19

    dude19 Member

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    alright me and my gf have had sex 4 times, 1 day after her period, twice 2days after her peroid and then once a week later. all times i used a trojan spremicide condom and pulled out
    she was on a antibiotic and the symptoms were just like the ones of pregnacy. she stopped the meds yesterday and felt fine but now today she is having them come back
    i dont know if she is playin mind games on me because now im really worried and have to wait til the 21-23 to really find out
    i dont know if i can make it cause everytime she says she doesnt feel good im like o shit
    so first what are the chacnes the condom never broke and i pulled out
    and second how do i make it til her next period whenever im by myself im thinking out it
     
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    Repost PENCIL DICK

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    My gf ALWAYS tells me she's feeling weird and shit after sex. I just shrug it off and dont give sympathy incase she pulls the "I might be pregnant" shit, no bitch, I did everything right, your not pregnant!
     
  3. chlywly

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    mind games, her mind playing games with her; she's not pregnant especially considering you PULLED OUT, let alone wore a condom... she needs to re-fucking-lax. its the med.
     
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    JustaMeThang New Member

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    IMO, you shouldnt be fuckin her, and this includes the guy who responded below you. If your girlfriends arent mature enough to take the risk, understand it, adn DEAL with it, they shouldnt be havin sex.
     
  5. dude19

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    ya i dont wanna have it again until im really ready because im freakin out and cant calm down.
    but should i worry or not cause i have to wait at least 10 more days, should i just forget about it until then
    also what is the earliest she can take a pregnacy test because i have finals coming up and cant be worrying about somethin like this
     
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    nothing you can do before a test will help anything, so just stop worrying about it. Then when the time is right, go take the test and then be happy when it comes back negative on the pregancy.

    but heed the above advice... You shouldn't be having sex if you can't handle the consequences of the actions. That goes for your partner, too... So even if you can handle it, but she can't, then you shouldn't be having sex together.
     
  7. dude19

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    when is the earliest a test can be taken
    and i need honest opinions on it because im not thinking rationally like should i stop worrying under thsoe circumstances
     
  8. dude19

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    but i need some opinions
    condom didnt break and pulled out , is she playin mind games or is there a good chance she is pregnant
     
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    its unlikely, but everything is possible. What change can occur with you worrying about it? Nothing. Wait till she takes a test, and deal with whatever the outcome is.
     
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    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    What he said, except it's kind hard to relax when you're the one who might be swelling up like a whale or having your insides scrapped raw.

    But other than that, chlywly is completely right. It is mind games, but she's not playing with you. It's her own mind and it's not fun. Beleive me, it's not a good feeling. You just happen to be along for the ride.
     
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    she is prob. feeling ill from the antibiotics.. they do that you know.. and if she is complaning about huring down there.. she might be sensitive to the spermicide which is also common.

    I too agree with the rest of the people who say that you should not be having sex unless you are ready to handle the out comes of it.

    I would not take a pregnancy test untill her period is late. Stress can also make it be delayed... chances are.. she is not pregnant.
     
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    Unfortunately Pregnancy is a very real outcome of sex. Granted you took all the 'correct' steps to try to prevent it but in reality nothing is 100% fool-proof other than abstinence...so if you're not ready to have to think about and deal with the potential outcomes then you should put your tool away.

    I agree that she's most likely just feeling the effects from the anti-biotics or as greenpillow said, she might be sensitive to the spermicide.

    AND If you discover in the end that she IS playing 'mind games' with you with the intent to freak you out and/or make sure you stay around for a while....you need to tell her to get lost. The last thing you want is a girl/woman thats going to do that to you.

    Playing Games = Fucking retarded and I dont and wouldnt put up with it.
     
  13. dude19

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    when u first start having sex are u really paranoid about it
    do you think she could be pregnant even if u use a condom with spermicide and pull out
    how do i calm down and relax for a week
     
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    get her to take a pregnancy test
     
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    Also, if your g/f is mentally unstable like my ex and feels like she is losing you OR she wants more attention she will say she is pregnant. But many girls will say they are pregnant after their first time just because they are scared and inexperienced. Chances are she isn't pregnant.
     
  16. dude19

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    well her symptoms went away which were from the antibiotics
    but i still cant relax because i still think she might be pregnant and i have to wait until mon to get an accurate test cause her period isnt supposed to come until next tues-thurs
    but if nothing when wrong with the condom and i pulled out i really have nothing to worry about right??
     
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    its prob in her mind. you should be safe since you used a condom (obviously it is not 100% but it cuts down your chances of getting her pregnant greatly if used correctly. jsut try to relax until you can get a test and go from there.
     
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    i had girlfriends who did this all the time. its like they teach these women in school or something that to keep a man all you have to do is tell them youre pregnant. just take it one day at a time. if she is then well congrats. is she isnt then well.....congrats
     
  19. dude19

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    well she wasnt pregant last month and since then we have stopped having sex,
    this month she is last 2 days so far and all we did was dry hump and i always had at least 2 layers on. is it stress or should i get her to get a test and no she isnt sleeping around
     
  20. chlywly

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    Just forget it really; if she's not interested in sex please yourself in other ways, go get a "massage".
     
  21. cuz

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    i dont think shes pregnent, but take her to a doctor if shes that worried about it
     
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    shit always happens like that, she is just sick
     
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    maybe she wants the attention... i had all the symptoms of being pregnant and it is just her mind playing tricks on her ... happens to me all the time i just don't worry bout it, i am on birth control so... i wait and if i miss a period thats when i get worried about. and if you have sex while on her period she can't get pregnant.
     

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