LGBT Post hook up advice...

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by Ferron, Jan 5, 2005.

  1. Ferron

    Ferron So yes, I'll see you there.

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    How do you tell someone you hooked up with that you aren't interested in a relationship without sounding like a uber dick? :dunno:

    I need to call this guy back tonight and don't want to hurt his feelings.

    Any suggestions of what to say and what not to say?
     
  2. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Too late. Consider his feelings hurt.

    You could just go on another date with him and see if you connect with him... Then, don't hook up with him again. Then, if he calls again, you can say "It's just not working for me. Can we just be friends."

    But, in the end, you may just end up looking like an uber-dick.
     
  3. RedGoober4Life

    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    Tell him you've gone straight. :p
     
  4. mamoru

    mamoru New Member

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  5. Ferron

    Ferron So yes, I'll see you there.

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    This is what I was fearing. His feelings are a lot stronger than are mine. I don't know this guy, and he lives 2 hours away. It seemed like it was just a drunken hook up at the time :dunno:
     
  6. Ferron

    Ferron So yes, I'll see you there.

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    :ugh:
    That isn't gonna work:naughty:

    Seriously though. I don't want to lie and don't want to have his feelings hurt (more).
     
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    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    You're right. It never works with straight girls. :wtc:
     
  8. Ferron

    Ferron So yes, I'll see you there.

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    We didn't really have a first date. Unless you count the laundry room?:mamoru:
     
  9. Ferron

    Ferron So yes, I'll see you there.

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    Ok, I'm leaving work early to go the gym, but I still need to decide what to say to this guy :dunno:
     
  10. ExDelayed

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    Maybe he is wondering how he can let you down without hurting your feelings? :x:
     
  11. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    :rofl: Mamoru honey, I love how you took the first two words and the two last words of my post, and still relayed what I was trying to say.

    See, sometimes I just get too wordy.
     
  12. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    oh jeez... you whore. (I love that about you)

    Tell him that you're strictly in shallow slut mode and you're really not in the mood to get to know anyone beyond their penis size. Then tell him that him that his penis was too small to ride your ride.

    That should send him running.
     
  13. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...'another' would imply that they had a first date. :mamoru:
     
  14. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    "It seemed"??? Pum'kin, I told you before I initiated it that the point of that exercise was to get you some.

     
  15. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: What a fun night...
    ...and hung over morning....
     
  16. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...Ferron broke him off a piece of the good shit. This guy didn't stand a chance...just the way I wanted it ;).
     
  17. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Well, since you mentioned it...... :o

    :mamoru:
     
  18. spiffy_badrock

    spiffy_badrock I'm sorry, if you were right, I'd agree with you.

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    Just go ahead and be a dick to him about it, I didnt do that when a similar situation happened to me, and now I have a stalker , dont make the same mistake I did
     
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    Eh the guy can't get that hurt and if he does it is his own damn fault since he's the one that thought a really great relationship can come out of casual sex.
     
  20. ExDelayed

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    Good point. :)
     
  21. Moonwalker

    Moonwalker fagulous

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    hook ups = [​IMG]
     
  22. Ferron

    Ferron So yes, I'll see you there.

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    I agree. I am usually very opposed, but:

    alcohol + horny * New Years = this thread.
     
  23. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    FIXED
     
  24. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Personally, I feel that if it's complete truth, then you should have no issue saying it. The primary intent isn't to hurt the person...

    :ugh: But this guy is clearly gonna stalk him. He has already left several messages on his cell, making sure to thank him for THAT NIGHT and leave his number is every message. And he's mentioned being willing to drive the 3 hour commute just to see him again.

    A preemptive surgical strike is best.
     
  25. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I mean, they didn't even know each others names 'till after they woke up naked in the middle of the Family Room.

     

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