possibly out of my league

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  1. themolsen

    themolsen New Member

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    I'm meeting a girl for coffee tonight and I'm a little nervous. Details:

    She's 28, I'm turning 26 in a week.
    She's a competitive swimmer (hot, read: BANGING body)
    Blonde
    Clinical psychologist and behavioral analyst
    Super smart and well-read

    I have tons of confidence, but I can't help but feel a bit intimidated. Maybe it's the age? I almost never date anyone older than me.

    Maybe it's her looks... she's an 8 or 9. I dated a 9 in high school, but that was short-lived. Everyone else I've dated has been a 7 max, usually in the 6's.

    Perhaps my working out and gaining weight is now showing results?

    I'm excited about her intelligence and interests because I know we'll have TONS to talk about (psychology, behavior, autism spectrum disorders, evolutionary psychology, working out, traveling, healthy eating, etc.)

    But I still can't help but feel like she's out of my league. Maybe that's my old, skinny me talking.

    Wish me luck and make me feel good so I act confident lol :noes:
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Sounds awesome dude, don't sweat it!

    Did you meet this girl online, or at the hospital?

    You might as well be yourself, because she will try to figure you our right away :mamoru:
     
  3. Gogoplata

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    nonchalant confidence ftw

    Don't decide for her that she is out of her league. At least let her do it.
     
  4. themolsen

    themolsen New Member

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    I met her IRL at the university when I was teaching a course a month or so ago. She was visiting an old professor or something.
    yea, that's my plan. and hell, a woman that hot and that smart...there's probably something wrong with her anyways if she's single lol. so maybe SHE'S the one not good enough for ME :x:
     
  5. Gogoplata

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    the fuck logic
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :h5:

    Good luck, I await updates.
     
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    ive dated girls that were 3-4 years older than me non stop for the past 6 years and its always worked great....dont even worry or think about it just be yourself
     
  8. themolsen

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    Waiting at the coffee shop... and looking forward to her maturity
     
  9. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    [y]bGzzY6l1m28[/y] :rofl:

    good luck dude, sounds like a great resume of her.
     
  10. Amanda Ann

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    If you show that you're intimidated and THINK you're out of her league she's gonna smell it, and pick up on it. Just go in knowing you are the shit and that you're going to show this girl an awesome night out! :h5:
     
  11. blackbirdbeatle

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    It's already been said but...

    "That woman was sexy...Out of your league? Son. Let women figure out why they won't screw you, don't do it for them."

    http://twitter.com/Shitmydadsays
     
  12. Falconer

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    Maybe she's just as nervous!

    9s usually think they are 7s.

    GOod luck, keep us posted!
     
  13. themolsen

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    Sooooo...






    It was awesome. Some of the best conversation and chemistry I've experienced in a while. She already texted me to tell me I'm awesome lol. I can't wait for our next encounter!

    And you know what the best part is? She's a fucking WOMAN, not a girl. She's accomplished, mature, focused and knows where she is in life and where she wants to go.

    I can't believe I was nervous. I'm the shit and I knew it all along :mamoru:
     
  14. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    :bigthumb:

    you just needed a few internet peoples to reaffirm that :mamoru:
     
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    Glad you had a great time!!! It's so good to hear that someone had success on a date in this forum!!!! Now follow up and ask her out again. Don't do the game thing and wait three days to contact her, and don't do the whole texting thing, give her a real phone call tomorrow evenng and have a good conversation, and during the course of it lock her down on dinner for this weekend!!!

    I'm so happy for you!!!!!
     
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    :bowdown: GET IT
     
  17. Ep

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    maybe your 9 is someone else's 7. Don't worry about it
     
  18. BlazinBlazer Guy

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    Oh HELL yes! Sounds like you hit the jackpot.


    Swimmer chicks = :yum:
     
  19. PlutoBHG

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    nice goin mac daddy
     
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    where do you lift at themolsen?
     
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    Good work buddy. Feels good to talk to/date a women, im experiencing this now for the first time and its GREAT.
     
  22. Memopad

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    "Clinical psychologist and behavioral analyst"

    This part makes me nervous :o

    Horrible horrible memories of psycho chicks... good luck!
     
  23. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Sounds fucking awesome. I'm jealous. :bowdown:
     
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    I read, "No curves, looks like a 12 year old boy." If thats what youre in to...:mamoru:
     
  25. ForgottenSpiral

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    That only happens to women who are forced into intense training regimens as children. It's entirely possible to be an adult competative swimmer and still have curves.
     

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