SRS possibly moving from dallas to santa fe

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  1. black jesus

    black jesus OT Supporter

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    Its a solid move professionally, but not much pay increase.

    I'm worried about it socially. There is only one racetrack close, and it kinda sucks. A much better one is about 5 hours away. I've been single with zero action from women in like 2.5 years. I'm worried that if I couldn't cut it with women in a town of 6 million in the metro, it will be worse in a town of 72,000 where most are married or lesbians. I'm lonely and shitty here, its going to be worse there. There is no sense in moving there if my quality of life will be worse.

    Thanks for the comments.s
     
  2. 04JETTA

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    yea i would be concearned 2 its def a risk but if you want change sometimes you have to take that risk i guess or move to a larger metro area justa thought
     
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    borazhasleftthebuilding Lets Party OT Supporter

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  4. black jesus

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    I'm not going to kill anyone...am I?
     
  5. Arrowhead

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    A smaller town might be a good change of pace. You're really writing it off without ever experiencing it first hand it seems.

    If you say you're failing in Dallas, its not like you can fail worse in Santa Fe, you can only improve right?
     
  6. black jesus

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    i worked there for 6 months last year.
     
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    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Perhaps at this time in your life it's time to focus on your career. Nothing wrong with that and there's no reason to believe you'll have a harder time meeting women there....you might actually be moving towards someone that you're more compatible with.
     
  8. Lilo

    Lilo I'm all alone so far up here, and my oxygen's all

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    Santa Fe, New Mexico?
     
  9. Arrowhead

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    then keep sucking where you are at or make a motivated effort to stop sucking. you're location is irrelevant.
     
  10. black jesus

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    affirmative
     

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