Possible Breakup

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  1. cooldragon

    cooldragon New Member

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    Me and my girl have been going out for about 6 months and everything had been going pretty well. Things got kind of serious and we talked about possibly getting married in a year or so. However, things changed suddenly, and now she is telling me that she talked to her mom about us and that it wouldnt work. now she just told me that we can still be together but at some point it will end or we could just be friends.

    after hearing this i felt horrible but it seemed like this relationship didnt matter to her either way. I told her i dont do the whole friend thing. She seemed very nonchalant about the whole thing. She told me to make a decision either we stay together for now or be friends. Both options are stupid to me and i feel horrible. Especially since it seems like she really doesnt give a shit either way. my gut tells me to end it and lose contact with her but i feel horrible. I really cared about her and it seems like she doesnt really care at all
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Just leave now before you become even more of an emotional wreck.

    100$ says the talk about marriage went back to her parents and her mom freaked. How old are you two?


    Run. Run and Dont look back.
     
  3. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    If you REALIZE that it's not what you want, why continue to hurt yourself?
     
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    P-Nut Active Member

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    Obviously she is still under her parent's control and her feelings are not the same as yours. It does not sound like you are going to be able to change her mind either.

    Cut your loss while you can and move on.
     
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  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    End it now.
     
  8. tomohr

    tomohr look again! OT Supporter

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    yeah, I would say just get out of it.. in the long run it isn't worth it

    also

     
  9. saosko

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    Can't force someone to care, obviously she has felt this way for a while.. Prob didn't know how to let you down. Move on.
     
  10. cooldragon

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    shes 20 i am 23. This sucks really bad i feel like sleeping till i forget about this whole situation. I talked to her for a little bit and we r going to meet up later so we can end this. i really dont think she cares about us me or the relationship. i really hate this feeling. i really regret this whole thing. it would have been better if this whole relationship never happened
     
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    Don't go!
     
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    20 and 23 talkinga bout marriage?



    Theres no way you two are this stupid.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Just break up with her tonight man, you'll be better off.
     
  14. PcH

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    6 months and you were talking seriously about marriage? :ugh:
     
  15. THoC

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    just break up w. her over the phone. stupid bitch does not even deserve a face to face break up.

    who the fuck says that a RS will eventually end. do what you want to do, i dont care. if she is THAT retarded just dump her w. a call.

    seeing her in person may make it even harder for you.
     
  16. ldaggerl

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    agreed, you only meet people face to face when they care and she obviously doesn't. Screw the bitch, I know you "love" her but forget. Tell her thank you for wasting half a year of your life and you'll hopefully forget the whole thing.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It's just 6 months, kid. Don't let this one (and probably your first) relationship ruin your future dating life. 23 is still young, and at 20 she's still far too immature to be contemplating marriage after only 6 months of dating.

    You're better off without and eventually finding a woman who doesn't have to talk to her mom to get her opinion on the two of you staying together.
     
  18. PcH

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    Let me emphasize how important this is.
     
  19. cooldragon

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    its been a difficult day today and i have been miserable. For some reason she came to my store to give me a present she got for me. Then she asked me if i will talk to her ever again. This while i am at work. I told her i will talk to her later not at work. She seems to be cool about everything like there was no relationship and nothing happened. I dont get that. I guess maybe she is just immature.

    I was thinking of meeting up with her and telling her how can she be like this and that i care alot about her. Now i am thinking i should just leave it dont say anything and just move on.
     
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    Im sorry you are having a hard time! Its best you just move on to someone who can make their own choices on who to be with.

    best of luck.. you will find someone soon.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You are looking at it the wrong way. Be greatful it happened. Such a great life lesson. It'll make you stronger and help you in the next relationship. When it stops hurting, you'll look back and you'll understand what I am talking about.
     
  23. saosko

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    Was this your first real relationship?
     
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    its tough man knowing the interest level between you two became lopsided..
     
  25. PcH

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    Granted 6 months is not a long time for a relationship, she did not just forget your relationship (just like you haven't). There is no point in you talking to her saying how could she do that. You two broke up for a reason. Move on for your own sake or you'll only revisit this shit and hurt yourself.
     

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