Scenario: My friend has asked me to come take some pictures of a farewell dinner for his sister. She is going away to live in Spain on Thursday. Dinner is going to be Monday night at the Spaghetti Factory (http://www.osf.com/index.html) The interior is made to look like converted classrooms into dinning areas. I haven't been there in years but from what I recall the ceilings are way too tall for bounce flash. I want to try to bring limited equipment with me so I do not distract the dinner, other guests at the restaurant, and the waiters. So here is what I'm thinking 1. AB Ringflash with, vagabond powerpack inside my backpack, and 20degree grid. 2. Off camera SB-800s (3) using square diffuers or shoot through umbrellas. Lenses will be 35/2, 50/1.4, 12-24/4, 80-200/2.8 I want to take good shots and not have them oooh or ahhhh at me the whole time. I'm sure you're all way to used to that as well.