POLL: Females, do you like to be dominated?

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Females, using the term 'domination' too loosely?

  1. FEMALE: Yes i like to be completely dominated by my male partner.

    6 vote(s)
    6.7%
  2. FEMALE: Yes i like to be dominated but there a few things that cross the line.

    8 vote(s)
    8.9%
  3. FEMALE: Yes i like to be dominated but i have a 30 page contract you must sign...

    1 vote(s)
    1.1%
  4. FEMALE: No i do not like to be dominated.

    4 vote(s)
    4.4%
  5. MALE: OH HI CAN I SEE RESULTS?

    71 vote(s)
    78.9%
  1. PlutoBHG

    PlutoBHG New Member

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    I find it funny how many women i talk to that say they want to be dominated only to find out that their definition of 'domination' is very complicated. Ive only really met 1 that wouldnt start squirming or saying no to things when im trying to have my way :noes:

    Poll inc


    EDIT: Im speaking specifically of sexual domination...not clean the house, make me a sammich. Just during sex, unless you count that as sexual activity for some playtime or whatever thats fine. But not mutually exclusive.


    My definition is simple, if im dominating. You do what i say, and if you fight back...you will lose...i know the line between domination in that sense and rape is very thin but its clear to most guys when you start seeing the reaction of your partner being serious about wanting you to stop...
     
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  2. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    IB you get flamed for not having an option for "sometimes."

    IB you get flamed for not defining it. Sometimes "dominated" can be "hold my wrists down and fuck me" and sometimes it can mean an hour of rope bondage preparation to tie all those intricate knots so she cannot move :mamoru:
     
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    yeah what kind of domination are we talking here??

    Sexual or all-encompassing 'do what i say bitch' domination??
     
  4. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :rofl: I was thinking the same thing. I dunno how to answer this question. My definition of domination is very complicated I guess!
     
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    CorpseStreet New Member

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    Poll options are pretty crappy but I can say that in most situations I haaaate to be dominated
     
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    PlutoBHG New Member

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    Youre right, i dont need to post my definition but i should have clarified sexually...edit incoming
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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  8. Amanda Ann

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    :wtc::wtc:

    50% of the time I like to be dominated in bed.. the other 50% of the time he better do what I say.

    99% of my life I need to be in charge.


    So, I voted no.
     
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    Didnt need my def but you got it anyway :noes:
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    In my experience most women want to be dominated in the sense that they like rough sex, but few actually want to be dominated in the sense that you're the master and she has no control over the situation whatsoever.
     
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    PlutoBHG New Member

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    You could have voted yes with that, if you like to be dominated only sometimes as long as its total domination :o
     
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    thats what im getting at, the term is loosley thrown about and i dont think women realize how disappointing it is to guys like me when that sort of thing is brought to light :hs:
     
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    Noones gonna be honest and vote for my 30 page contract option :wtc:
     
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    lol I've always been pretty straight forward in how much I do not like to be dominated in any way
     
  15. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    What sort of things do you like to do when you dominate a girl?
     
  16. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :rofl: I'm with you, man. Although realistically pretty much everyone has a list of things they won't do. I mean I had one chick I could tie up, gag, choke, slap in the face, threaten, etc., but there were still things that were off limit. :dunno: But even I have things I won't do. No reason not to enjoy the rest of it though.
     
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    i never said having rules were bad, just telling someone you like to be dominated and not clarifying those rules sometimes let a guys mind run a little wild and thats when disappointment settles in...
     
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    thank you and unthank you at the same time....in saying what youve said in your post you are helping me with what i was wondering. so in the end i dont think it will be a shitty poll :wiggle:
     
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    a few things that always cross my mind that girls alot of times dont like are

    cuffing/tieing up
    forcefull blowjobs (holding her head is the easiest way to explain what usually is disliked there)
    anal
    hard spanking
    and getting cum on their face
     
  20. Falconer

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    Scotty doesn't know.
     
  22. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Nope, I want nothing to do with that.
     
  23. Falconer

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    IB evolutionary discussions of "it's masculine to dominate and feminine to be dominated."
     
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    because what women say they want and what they actually want are the same thing! :run:
     
  25. Kyoko

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    I like to be dominated. Not all of the time (as I get bored easily with repetition), but a good chunk of the time. My bf's reeeeeeeally good at it. I guess "enthusiastic" is the word. He likes to exert his dominance in bed at random times, so he keeps me on my toes. The level of dominance ranges from pretty mild (bent over the bed and ass in the air while he fucks wildly from behind) to kinky as hell (handcuffs, spanking, forced bjs, spit and cum everywhere). It works really well between us because we trust each other and are really good at reading each other's body language. And I guess that whole "being in love" thing helps too.

    I like to dominate too, but in a different way. I'm really little so I can't exert myself physically on anyone, so I emphasize controlling the level of pleasure I give.

    And I've never gotten into any rope bondage but that shit turns me on.

    Man, I'm so good at breaking Asian stereotypes. </sarcasm>
     

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