FRK Please recommend some male dom informational sites

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  1. Drilldo

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    I had an interesting conversation with my best friend yesterday and it turns out she is interested in bdsm, specifically being dominated by her boyfriend. I have a very small amount of experience with this and told her what I could, but I don't feel all that comfortable giving much advice when I know so little about it myself. I told her I would look around for more information and one of the places I am looking is here in FS. She is interested mainly in different bondage techniques, positions, things like that to start off with and then go from there. If anyone knows of a good site for beginners that would help her and her bf get started that I could pass along I'd appreciate it, thank you in advance.
     
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    Thank you! Anybody else?
     
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    Google "Two Knotty Boys" and that should turn up some interesting Bondage techniques. :wavey:
     
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    I take it you like? :bigthumb:
     
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    Actually I was afraid of what I was going to see :o Just looked though and yes :bigthumb: Thanks!
     
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    you're welcome.
     
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    secretly enjoying this thread.
     
  12. Drilldo

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    brother
     
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    These are a few of my favorite (places to buy ) things:

    http://www.madame-s.com/index.html. Mr. S is the brother store and caters to dominating men: http://www.mr-s-leather.com/index.html.

    The only advice I can give about starting out is to have fun with it. As they get more comfortable with the initial silliness they may experience when she repeats "I want to suck your cock, sir" without giggling, a new tone will take over. There will likely be less cheeky "oh master make me do it. I've been such a bad girl" and more "if you don't let me cum now I'm going to die. PLEASE let me cum. I'll do anything if you make me cum."

    That's where he wants her to be. Excite the body through the brain first. Blindfold her and tell her step by step what he's going to do to her next. "I'm going to tie your hands together, but I want you to keep your legs apart so I can feel you, taste you, play with you until you are dripping." He can finger her, lick her, spank her.

    Anticipation + Obstacle = Excitement. Jack Morin came up with this nifty little quote and it is the basis to make bd sm ds and whatever combo suits you wanting to do it again and again. Hearing what he's going to do to her creates anticipation. She's tied up and blindfolded and her orgasm is contingent upon his whim - that's is the obstacle. Those two events will generate a lot of excitement.

    But have fun with it. If she gets scared, stop what's going on, reassure her, and when she's okay, have some form of conclusion to what was started. We don't want any submissives learning how to manipulate a situation early!

    And always always always reconnect as lovers after the scene is finished. Cuddle, tell stupid jokes to each other, have regular sex. This will ensure that there is more reward in this relationship than just cumming during a scene. There will be closeness and bonding and a stronger anticipation for the next time.
     
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    Oh, this is an advanced site, but it has effective male domination described as experienced by a couple who are not married to each other. (There is a heavy enema/anal lean to this site.)

    http://www.intimateinvasions.com/index.html

    Effective chastisement, reward, punishment, and humiliation.
     
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