Hello All, Sorry if this is a long one, it is a tough decision for me... So I am a senior in high school, about to graduate, and have to decide between two schools, but the problem is that they are both out of state and no matter which one I choose, i will be ruining or distancing a relationship. Because I do not want academics to get in the way of help, I will just say school A, which is 3 hours away, and school B, which is about 1 1/2 hours away (yes I know it sounds juvenile but just bare with me). School A is cheaper, a house my parents have bought, and I would get into he Greek system easily, and I would get into a suite the first year as I have good grades. School B has a better engineering school, smaller as I am not a huge party-er, is closer to home, and has more people like me. Like most people I have a lot of close friends, but I do have 2 "true" best friends, and a very close girlfriend whom I consider to be a best friend as well. My best friend is going to school A, which is about 3 hours away from home, my other best friend is probably staying close to home so I won't mention him as much. My girlfriend is going in state, about an hour away from school B, but her school is about 4 hours away from school A. The school she is going to is not even a choice for me at this point, as I am not interested in it. I love them both very much, of course in a different way for the guy ( I am a straight male). And if I had my way I could have them both in my life for as long as I lived. But life is such, and I have to make a decision soon. Both of them know the real me, and I do not have to be fake to either of them, and they both love me as well. I can tell them anything, and have been through so much with both of them. I would miss either one terribly, and it breaks my heart that I will have to one day say goodbye to either one. For anyone curious for the factor, I have been dating the girl for almost 2 years, been best friends with the guy for about 3-4 years. So please help me, thank you for anything you can provide. For the record, I know I should not change my future for a person, but either way I am going to a great school, and my future would be the same either way, as I know where I am going for Grad school almost for sure.