Playing with ure clit during Sex..

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  1. Darrin

    Darrin Eat. Sleep. Arrest People.

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    So, girls:

    do you do it to enhance the experience?

    or do it because he is sucking in bed and u need to get off :)



    im merely curious :big grin:
     
  2. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    If the sex is decent I shouldn't be able to touch myself
     
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    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    this is why they do it. if you're doing the job properly she shouldn't have to give herself ANY extra stimulation :)
     
  4. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    especially if it's because your hands are tied... :naughty:
     
  5. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    why arent YOU playing with her clit while screwing her? Its not hard to reach down there and rub on it to give her even more pleasure. If a girl ever has to do anything while having sex to make it better, then you suck.
     
  6. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    motherfucking :werd:

    if the guy is half decent in bed, (1) theres not need, and (2) theres not space.

    i should be getting clitoral stimulation from his body in most positions.

    note: if its doggy style, then yes. but i dont like that posistion much. :o
     
  7. Darrin

    Darrin Eat. Sleep. Arrest People.

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    you all act like this has/is happening to me lol. hasnt ever happened to me yet, as i said i was curious as i know girls that do, and u see it in porn sometimes :)
     
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    What are you? 15?

    I haven't heard statements like that, since I was that young.

    It's not because he is bad, but because extra stim, can enhance an already great experiance.

    Grow up and learn about pleasure before making dumb comments, like that, and I'm not just saying that to RedVsBlue, but everyone that has this misconception that all you need to do is angle your cock right and voila...... :rolleyes:

    To put it another way, I like it when chicks suck on my nipples or stimulate other areas while having sex, does that mean that they suck? No actually it makes it better.
     
  9. lauren

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    i tend to agree with RVB on this. if i have to fingger myself during sex, the guy isnt doing it right for me. sure, there are things you can do to enhance sex, but imo, good clitoral stimulation is best when i dont have to do it myself.

    and no,im not 15.
     
  10. RockChick

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    i do it sometimes... he does it sometimes but its not doing that much for me... i prefer sex without that kinda "work" :p

    if i wanna stimulate my clit i just go at it on top.
     
  11. Shelby500

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    why are you guys saying if she needs the extra stimulation its only cuz you suck??? thats not true, shit you're suppose to get the most outta sex anyway and that sure as hell is one way to do it... your hands dont always gotta be on the clit though try exploring all her body while you're on her, grab her titties caress her booty etc...
     
  12. RedVsBlue

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    Aww, do you think saying that im a little teenager is insulting my age? Just so you know, at 15 I had graduated HS and was halfway to my college degree double majoring in math and CSC. So even at 15, I was probably more experienced and intelligent than you. If you are going to attempt an insult, try something else ;)

    Also apparently you didnt read what I said, you comprehension skills must be lacking, along with your flamming skills. I said the guy needs to be touching the girl, the girl shouldnt have to be rubbing her own clit. Nothing wrong with clitoral stimulaiton during intercourse along with the vaginal stimulation.

    Edit: 'To put it another way', do you think you should have to suck on your own niples or stimulate your other area's during sex, or if you want them stimulated do you think she should do it?
     
  13. BTA

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    My GF never really "needs it". But sometimes I like to watch her touch herself while I'm going kinda slow and steady.

    Sometimes I've done the touching myself, but she says it's too intense that way.

    I dunno, we like to play around and do whatever.

    Especially if it's just a quickie.
     
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    Wow that's pretty lame..... since MOST people at 15 are inexperianced at best, but think they know all, hence why the age 15 comment was used. Also you should re-read, I was saying that entire reply to not just you (so your comprehension level seems to be a mite low), but everyone that thinks the that self stim means he's lacking.

    I love it when people through in the "I was probably more intelligent than you" comments, yes, that proves so much. :rolleyes: Making up for character flaws are we?

    Yes, actually I have self stimulated, it was no less pleasurable than her stimulating me, infact it might have been a little more fun, kinda naughty.

    Also there are times (positions) where the man would find it difficult at best to stim the clit, like missionary, so it's easier for the woman to self stim.....
    But for myself when she's riding I enjoy rubbing her clit, and not allowing her to do so. Like teasing.
     
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    I got my done because I thought it would be nice to get an orgasm throughout the day. It looks good on me.

    It wasnt because anyone was sucking in bed it's just fun to be able to look at a pair of jeans and think " I'm going to have fun today"
     
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    clit peircing?
     
  17. Evil Unicorn

    Evil Unicorn Lurk but Don't Touch

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    I've done it, he's done it. I dont usually NEED to, he does a splended job simulating me with no hands, but if he leans back and gives me room I'm going to play. It's just me, I like touching myself and he likes watching me.
     
  18. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    I don't like my clit touched during intercourse. It pulls focus from G and A spot stimulations.
     
  19. aaron33

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    What happens when you stimulate both spots to orgasms at once? I've tried licking the clit and fingering the G spot at the same time, and brought her to orgasm in 5 minutes, but what is the difference in feeling between the 2? Which do you find better? I believe that also too much stimulation at once is not good. Would you recommend licking and then fingering instead of both at the same time?
     
  20. Bella

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    Yea my piercing, I went back and read the title. Didnt read it correctly my fault:o
     
  21. Josie

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    It's extra stimulation- too much is never enough. Well, depends on who you're with, but you know.
    And he loves to watch it, so why not?
     
  22. RedVsBlue

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    Ahh defensive and attacking over the internet. Cant let something go can ya? Have to attack again. Well the IL is growing...thanks for your worthless comments just the same.
     
  23. Carpet Liquor

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    BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... *wipes tears from eyes*, that's too funny. Thanks for the morning laugh.
     
  24. kai-li

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    Yes sometimes I do... and it isn't because he sucks, not in the least. Its because I like the extra stimulation and he's already got his hands full with my nipples or its deep thrusting thats hitting the G but not hitting the clit... and BECAUSE IT TURNS HIM ON to see me touching myself.

    Its the same to me as when you bring a vibe in to play. Its not there because he sucks, its there because we want some extra fun
     
  25. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    Well, you should be asking which two. There is a whole world of difference between intercourse and cunnilingus. For cunnilingus, I think clitoral and vaginal stimulation is great if the person performing it on you is coordinated. If he or she is not, it's just distracting and annoying at best.
     

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