pity fuck

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  1. JemmaX

    JemmaX New Member

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    So my recent thread and also darkangel19's thread got me thinking about this. Guys, have you ever given a girl a pity fuck? someone implied it was hard to do (considering the physical part, im assuming) but what if its been a while since you have had sex, wouldnt it be easier to pity fuck a girl that you really dont care about having sex with?
     
  2. Stev

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    I would say most guys, wouldnt normally do pity fucks unless they really wanted to just get laid.

    But then its way more about getting laid and getting out then it is the pity fuck. I dont think i could get it up if i just had pity for a girl, but thats me.
     
  3. antihero

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    i dont even really understand exactly what that means.

    does it mean fuck a girl you normally wouldn't just because you feel bad for her?
     
  4. Stev

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    yes.
     
  5. sportsjunkie

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    i never understood pity fucks

    but i'm assuming more guys do it than gals
     
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    Yeah I don't really know how I'd keep it up if I didn't want to do it already.

    We'd do it mostly just to get laid than anything else. Unfortunately, it's probably less about her and more about us.
     
  7. antihero

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    would it be a pity fuck if it was a cute girl who you would normally fuck but you are just too tired to really want to?
     
  8. antihero

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    i think its mostly girls who do it.. kind of an "I don't really want to but i guess ill just let him go at it for a few since he wants it so bad"
     
  9. HuskiRuski

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    no guys ever give pity fucks.

    a pity fuck means the guy is getting nothing or next to nothing from the experience. this is just never the case. if the guy is not gonna get any personal pleasure out of it (besides the orgasm), he won't fuck the girl.

    in cases where a guy fucks a girl he isn't attracted to, it's 99% of the time because he's just horny and is on a dry spell.

    with girls it's different. a girl will fuck a guy she isn't attracted to even if she isn't horny. i guess girls can just handle doing that kind of thing. guys cannot.
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Bleh, I cant even imagine giving a guy pity sex. A few years ago I dated a virgin who I swear actually begged me to have sex with him after I broke up with him. Said no hard feelings...but could you at least take my virginity? I couldn't do it.
     
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    I don't think its possible.
     
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    well i think of it in terms of women can do without sex more so than men :mamoru:

    but who knows :o
     
  13. Falconer

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    It's usually a girl giving a guy a pity fuck.
     
  14. Stev

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    yep.
     
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    It's usually girls handing out pity fucks. Guys are not likely to fuck a girl he has no interest in or attraction to.
     
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    i only pity fuck hot girls.........................
     
  17. JemmaX

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    I didnt explain it very well i guess. I was thinking about in terms of a relationship, so a girl you already have sex with, but for some reason you arent in the mood, you think shes too fat (like darkangels boyfriend), you 'just dont want to' much anymore (like my boyfriend).

    I didnt mean taking home some random girl cause you feel sorry for her. I would think if you took a girl home for sex that you arent really into, it would be just cause you want to get laid. not for pity.
     
  18. HuskiRuski

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    I wouldn't fuck her because I wouldn't be into it. It wouldn't be good sex and chances are I wouldn't even get hard if I wasn't in the mood.

    It's not the same for a girl. Not to be blunt, but a girl can just lay there and take it if the guy is really horny (some girls even let their bf's fuck them in their sleep). Guys don't really have the option to "take it"
     
  19. johnny

    johnny shit, baby

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    Not unless she felt it was the case :dunno:

    Like an undercover hottie with huge glasses or some other "flaw" to make her feel self-loathing...when she was actually super cute.
     
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    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    If you're in a relationship and he doesn't want to fuck, I definitely would look pass the word 'pity' and onto 'desire'. If he's just sleeping with you to keep you from bitching then that's definitely not a healthy relationship.

    My answer? I've fucked girls cause they just wanted it, yes. But hell, unlike some guys in this forum, if its appealing, whether or not I want it isn't a question. I'll always take it =P.
     
  21. JustaMeThang

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    I think men and women both give pity fucks...women more so then men.

    I have given my fair share, and I'm sure I received as well.

    Pity sex to a BF/GF on a regular basis is indicative of big troubles. Every once and a while, not so much as its just a way of keeping the waters calm when its not worth battling the waves.
     
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    Calling it a pity fuck is an excuse for lowering your standards IMO.
     
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    i know girls i could pity fuck, but i dont want to (and dont think i could even get it hard if i tried to) i would rather beat off and keep to my own.
     
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    I don't know very many girls who can do that when they're not attracted to the guy. dunno
     
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    Guy's can't pity fuck girls. This phrase SPECIFICALLY means when a guy wants it so bad from a girl that she lets him go at it for a while. Guys simply can't get hard to people they aren't attracted to. That simple.

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