Phone call after sex?

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  1. YOURFACE

    YOURFACE New Member

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    I cannot figure this guy out and it is bothering me. So here's the story:

    - I met this guy through a mutual friend, who is dating his best friend. I heard this guy is a bit socially awkward around pretty girls.
    - On the night I met him, we went back to our mutual friend's place, made out, and crashed on the couch. We did not have sex.
    - I got a text msg from him 6 days later on Friday evening asking me about my plans. I was staying in and he said he would hit me up later, but never did.
    - I didn't hear from him again until a month later, when we all gathered at our mutual friend's place after clubbing. He apologized for not calling and promised he would in the future. We made out that night and were going to have sex, but did not have a condom, so nothing happened.
    - He texted me 4 days later saying we should hang out. We ran into each other at a bar that same day. I texted him the next morning to see how he is feeling since we were out late.
    - That weekend, he texted me to see what I was up to. I let him know which club I was at. At the end of the night, we again gathered at our mutual friend's house. We ended up having sex that night. This was last Saturday night.

    I haven't heard back from this guy yet. Its been almost 3 days. I don't know if I should call him or consider him gone. I do know that his friends make fun of him because he doesn't know how to act around girls. Oh, btw we are 24 and 26 years old.

    So, what are your thoughts?
     
  2. RichieHemingway

    RichieHemingway New Member

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    On what?
     
  3. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    What do you want ? he's contacted you like 5 times over 2+ months. Obviously he's not in for a relationship.
     
  4. YOURFACE

    YOURFACE New Member

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    I'm just wondering if I should call this guy up, or should i wait for him to call?

    I guess I'm just trying to figure out what his deal is...
     
  5. Dahlia

    Dahlia Active Member

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    He fucked you and couldn't be bothered to call you back in 3 days. He's not in to you so why bother waiting around anymore for him to call. If he was in to you he would have called you the next day.
     
  6. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    or even if he wanted to keep you around for easy sex, would have likely texted you.
     
  7. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

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    2nd'd.
     
  8. Amanda Ann

    Amanda Ann New Member

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    Not worth your time, so don't waste your time holding out hope for a phone call. He's not interested in you.
     
  9. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    wow, where do you live ? you seem easy and dumb. I could use some free sexah



    How did that last 1nighter turn out ? did you get him into a relationship
     
  10. schmitty101

    schmitty101 You might remember me from such films as "Dig your

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    Wow, I always wondered how strangers go through the process of meeting, bonding, and then having sex. I always try to be cool and shit to the girl and it never works. I never thought that just texting her every few weeks and would mean sex next time I see her. I guess that he just played the whole "I don't give a shit" card and you had sex with him for it. Nice, I gotta try that on the bar rat I meet last weekend.
     
  11. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

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    A guy that likes you will call you after having sex with you. A guy that could give 2 shits, wont call you.
     
  12. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    wow this broad just really doesn't care much about herself :rofl:


    and everyone is calling her a whore... welp :dunno:
     
  13. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    My thoughts? You sound like the socially awkward one. At twenty-something you shouldn't be wasting your time on a guy who so obviously doesn't give a shit about you.
     
  14. D7

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    oh, I didn't see "whore" until your post
     
  15. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    diesel said she sounds easy and dumb... sounds like it to me. course i just kinda throw that word around...

    she doesn't care enough about herself or the men she fucks so why should they? :dunno:
     
  16. D7

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    "easy and dumb" != whore

    have you seen Diesel's standards for women?
     
  17. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    no but this is only OT and she kinda does sound easy if this guy clearly didn't give a shit about her and she still had sex with him. why waste her time?
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Dude, stop talking to this guy and move on.
     
  19. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Keep answering his calls if you want a booty call, or call him when you want to get laid, seriously.

    If you're looking for anything more than you're probably gonna get smacked in the face with reality.
     
  20. antihero

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    why'd you have to go there? it helps nothing.

    I'm getting more the impression that is a perfectly nice girl that just doesnt know how the game works
     
  21. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Sadly, I feel this is true :hs:
     
  22. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    i wasn't trying to go anywhere :rofl:

    but i also agree with you, sounds a bit naive... but for a 24 year old? i don't know.
     
  23. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    This was my reaction. Isn't it common knowledge that when a dude doesn't call after sex, he's just not that into you? I mean watch any sitcom ever or talk to any human being for that matter and they'll tell you the same thing.
     
  24. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    i'd like to know how the sex was :rofl:
     
  25. PcH

    PcH Guest

    I agree with what others have said. If he was really into to you, he would've contacted you sooner/more frequently from the beginning.
     

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