Personal Problem Pre-Cum

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  1. insane4cefed

    insane4cefed New Member

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    Just to clarify before I go into any detail. I am talking about pre-cum (at least thats what I believe its called) not premature ejaculation.

    This is rather a embarrassing thing for me and it has been for several years now it seems. Whenever I am close to a girl that I like and we cuddle or make out...I start pre-cumming like crazy.. its disgusting.

    I have no idea how to control it, it seems to be completely involuntary and I wish it would stop. Its the flow that keeps on flowing for me, the longer we sit and cuddle the more it comes out. If we end up watching a movie or two depending on the night I can dan near soak a whole side of my underwear.

    I stopped dating a few years ago because of it , I thought that once I was a little older I would outgrow it but.. no. I recently decided to hit on girls and ended up gettin a gf. When we first started dating and didnt really touch much I had no problem hanging around her, or sittin next to her holding her hand. But week 3 laying next to eachother , cuddling, making out.. pre-cuming came back full force. I basicly have to wrap my penis in a paper towel before I go hangout with her or ill dam near soak threw to my pants.

    I am totaly embarrassed by it and on the verge of breaking it off with her because of how I react to simple contact.

    So..any of you guys had similar problems? Or am I just broken for life?
     
  2. ChipOnShoulder

    ChipOnShoulder New Member

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    It sucks that you have this problem, but to put things in perspective, dudes with way freakier conditions have gotten laid more.

    I'm sure it's more in your head than anything.

    Have you seen a doctor about this or done some WebMD snooping? People whose arm pits or hands sweat like crazy get shit injected so they can stop that. I'm sure there is something that can be done about your condition.
     
  3. BoomBoomBoy

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    Have you done any work through masturbation to see if you can obtain any better control?
     
  4. D7

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    What does she think of it? Maybe she likes it :dunno:
     
  5. HuskiRuski

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    it baffles me that you would break it off with a girl (and even stop dating all together) because you FEAR that she won't like that you precum.

    have you ever stopped to think that she wouldn't care one bit?
     
  6. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :werd: "Let women figure out why they won't screw you, don't do it for them"
     
  7. LoriLove

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    i may be weird but i think pre-cum tastes better than cum sometimes, so your girl may be into it... have you talked to her about it?
     
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    you should let a guy pee in your mouth. you might like it.
     
  9. D7

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    fucktard.jpg :rofl:
     
  10. insane4cefed

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    If I have an errection I barely pre-cum, it only happens mostly when I am not wanting for it to happen at all.

    They never find out lol, I have always made sure that if I had to I take frequent bathroom breaks to basicly clean it up or.. I just discontinue seeing the person. Like I said.. I think its embarrassing.
     
  11. LoriLove

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    because im really subconsciously craving everything the body rejects in liquid form... lol

    i think you're being too hard on yourself. over-thinking it. :dunno:
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :ugh: How old are you?
     
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    you are definitely over reacting. just mention it to your new g/f and she may even appreciate your openness.
     
  14. HuskiRuski

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    precum contains more urine than cum. that is what you might be tasting.

    i'm just being constructive.
     
  15. LoriLove

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    :eek3:

    at the same time... i think the microshot is better than tapping the keg... in this case
     
  16. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    no precum is actually very lube like, I guess pee must taste salty or something, precum does not have any taste to it.
     
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    I had a g/f years ago who used to get really, really wet when we first started dating (just kissing and general fooling around with the pants still on).

    For a few times she really resisted making out and getting too close and would constantly use the bathroom. I had "accidentally" slipped my hand up again her pants/panties for several weeks and always noticed what I figured was a pad. No way was she on her period for like 3 weeks and she finally admitted it a few months later that she just always gets super wet.

    It fucking turned me on...maybe it will turn your girl on as well.
     
  18. Dahlia

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    Why don't you try seeing a doctor? If it's such a problem they can help you out more than a forum full of people that have never experienced what you are going though.
     
  19. moneymoguls

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    I also have pre-cum when getting aroused but it has never been a problem. Women don't seem to think much about it.

    You're worrying over nothing. Everybody has his/her own quirks. The human body is not perfect but sex always feels good anyway.

    If you bring them to orgasm, they won't care about pre-cum. They'll be passed out.
     
  20. antihero

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    you make a really annoying troll

    obviously this is BS.
     
  21. infinite.purple

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    pre cum is HOT imo. don't sweat it. i mean guys are turned on by girls getting wet and soaking their underwear. why should it be any different the other way around? :dunno:
     
  22. HuskiRuski

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    precum contains trace amounts of urine (same hole, bro). cum contains zero urine.

    obviously, you're a retard.
     
  23. MarshyTheKid

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    Dude, I get crazy amounts of precum too. Not when holding hands and stuff, but messing around or when things start getting hot and heavy. Every girl I've been with thinks its hot as hell. I've taken off my pants and its looked like I came in them. I tell them how I get lots of precum and they love it.
     
  24. HuskiRuski

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    i also get a good amount (though maybe not quite as much as you), and i've never been embarrassed by it. i'd say it's not unusual for me to have 3-4 1inch diameter stains on my underwear by the time it comes off.

    girls have seen it. they don't care. the only reaction i've ever gotten has been big perverted grins - they like it.
     
  25. wolfskymoon

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    ............. internet is a crazy place. :eek3:

    Btw you said it happens when you don't want it to happen. It's a mental thing then, I am sure there is therapy out there to fix it. Maybe your muscles are weak and the blood supply is blocked or something. Tell this to your doctor and see what he says.
     

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