Okay so it turns out my lacrosse team's keeper is gay. He has been hitting on me pretty hard. We've gotten coffee a few times and he seems like my type. He is very honest which I really like. In the course of his being honest he tells me that he really gets into being verbally degraded and other stuff like that that which has made me kind of uneasy. What does he mean --- what is he looking for? I don't watch porn really so I don't even know how to find an example of this. Is it simple stuff like saying "Take it" or what? If you want to PM me sample things you are supposed to say (if you are too shy to post it on the board) that is fine. I just have no idea what this kid wants, and whether I could ever do it.