LGBT Perhaps an odd question to ask...but it must be asked. NSW-text only

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  1. RX Bandit

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    Okay so it turns out my lacrosse team's keeper is gay. He has been hitting on me pretty hard. We've gotten coffee a few times and he seems like my type. He is very honest which I really like.

    In the course of his being honest he tells me that he really gets into being verbally degraded and other stuff like that that which has made me kind of uneasy.

    What does he mean --- what is he looking for? I don't watch porn really so I don't even know how to find an example of this. Is it simple stuff like saying "Take it" or what? :rofl:

    If you want to PM me sample things you are supposed to say (if you are too shy to post it on the board) that is fine. I just have no idea what this kid wants, and whether I could ever do it.
     
  2. RX Bandit

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    Is that kind of normal for a guy to say he wants that...or is that a signal of past abuse or a psychological warning sign or something to that extent?

    He is the pretty typical 18 year old VERY young looking cute boy type. I don't think I can say mean or insulting things to him. If he is really only looking for graphic dirty talk....well that is better than like "prison rape" scenario that I was worrying about that he wanted. :/
     
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    It sounds to me like he's just in to a little bit of dominant / submissive role play, which is a perfectly natural form of sexual expression and not necessarily indicative of any sort of pathology or traumatic childhood event.

    You can always just be honest and say that you're not sure if you're in to acting so dominant.

    Of course, you can always give it a shot! Who knows, you may find you like it :)
     
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    :love: That did help.

    He emailed me a half naked picture right after I posted last time and the body text of the message was: "What would you do to this?"

    And he has been not responding to my response all night. I think it wasn't "abusive" enough....because it wasn't very. So I might have killed this before it went anywhere :hs:


    I am the dominant guy type, just I'm generally nice to people. I don't normally call people "bitches" so using that during sex just seems highly improper to me :o

    I'm also the older guy so I doubly feel that I can't mess this kid up psychologically/emotionally. :hs:
     
  5. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Okay. I've had one experience with a verbal sadomasochist. Although he seemed fixated on racial issues. So...I guess he was a fetish verbal racists. He was white, and would be totally normal in everyday life and interaction. But then you would have sex, and he would sneak in "You like this white dick?" And I stopped, and asked "what?" He asked me to go with it. I tried.

    "Nigger you want this white dick, don't ya boy"
    "Fuck my tight white ass with that big black dick"
    "Suck it, Nigger"

    I never had sex with him again. I simply could not deal. Although I had an amazing orgasm, and my therapist made some great money off of that lil event.
     
  6. RX Bandit

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    :hug:

    That is funny you closed your post with that though. That was my first thought! "If this actually happens at least one of us will be paying for a psychiatrist's new car" :o
     
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    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Like, I had issues understanding why it was such a strong sexual experience...even though I was totally repulsed.
     
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    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Hey I play lacrosse to!

    What position do you play?
    (Going offtopic)
     
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    *takes notes*
     
  10. RX Bandit

    RX Bandit Sell You Beautiful »

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    I'm versatile :kdubb:

    No but I'm attack...which I look very awkard doing at my size. Are you mid?
     
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    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    I played mid one year, but I kinda got put as goalie it wasn't my choice really, but I like it now actually. Infact I got defensive mvp last year
     
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    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    That's awesome dude :bigthumb:

    A skilled keeper is the hardest thing to find. Are you going to try and play in college?
     
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    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Depends if I go to college I have a 2.167 right now :ugh:.

    I was considering dropping out and starting my own business, but I dunno
     
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    You are a bright kid, it shows in some of your posting. You just need the right kind of motivation to realize education can be fun :hs:

    What subjects do you like? There is a way to make even the dull stuff fun. I'm in law school....and there have been plenty of classes along the way I wish I had never taken and I could have quit before I even started. But I didn't. So you don't quit either :squint:

    I volunteer tutor at-risk kids. So if you need help with something academic don't hesitate to ask. :wavey:

    It's my personal mission to make sure no more gay dudes drop out of school and work retail or other dead end jobs. There need to be more gay lawyers and doctors and Republican Congressmen :kdubb: :o
     
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    RX Bandit Sell You Beautiful »

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    And :rofl: at how a dirty sex thread has turned into this. I really am Will Truman :(
     
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    My grades were low in school because I felt like I was being held back. Once I got expelled out of the normal high school and went to the alternative high school, where I could go at my own pace, did I finally feel like I was happy. Surprisingly my grades soared too.

    Dropping out now might seem like a great idea but wait till you enter the real world and find out how often that little piece of paper is really needed. Car loans, job applications, etc.
     
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    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Hey I actually want to be a lawyer as well, but i dunno I am kinda giving up on that dream.

    I am taking ap history

    honors english( its required its like a over achiever school)
    honors algebra
    chemisty(took it last year and got a b dunno why I am taking it again


    Its not a problem of not knowing the material its just that I don't give a shit. The way I see it is how is this helping the world? I mean I am writing a ten page paper on rome, how is this gunna change the world? Basically the teacher is going to skim it looking for main points and be done. I mean I just dont see the point of these assignments in which I am not helping anyone.
    I dunno I just think are education system needs to change. Most people I know consider me a really bright person, but yet I fall through the cracks.

    But yea I dunno I am seriously considering dropping out and starting my own company. I always get these crazy Ideas for inventions and stuff, was thinking of maybe going with some of them, but I dunno. I also have always wanted to write a book, and do public speaking.

    I am so weired hahaha
     
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    Trust me you can get into a 4 year school with that gpa! I did nothing my last semester of senior year except work at the sheriffs office, take two art classes, an agriculture class and four other classes that I never attended. Still graduated but not with a B+ average that I had the semester before that, I think I graduated with a 2.6 or something like that I remember my gpa fell over 1.0 that semester. The bad thing about gpa is that if you have a shitty time span say a year like I had in 05 and 06 you can bring your gpa way down and it takes years to get it back up :sad2: After this semester I will finally have my gpa back up in the C's. :o I've learned my lesson if I feel a shitty semester coming on, take it off it's much better then flunking classes.
     
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    1. Have him on his knees, face down in the pillows, both wrists restrained by your hands

    2. Alternate between hard/slow thrusts (rhythm of hammering a nail) and hard/fast thrusts (pressing a button really fast on a game controller)

    3. Don't say things that are too cliche and don't say them too quickly because it will become old and lower the shock-value. Say stuff like 'take it you fucking cunt, you scum!', 'you like it in your ass don't you piece of shit', 'I want to hear you moan, tell me you like it prick'.

    4. Spit on his back, it's the line between verbal/physical abuse but if you save it to the near-end of the game he'll be so into it, it won't matter.

    5. Take one hand off a wrist and rub the spit into his back, then grab his hair with the same hand, don't pull it or anything, just grab hold as you finish up
     
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    :eek3: goddamn son
     
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    ...yea, see that got me hard.
     
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    Oh it definitely was a request; and it was helpful :bigthumb: :kdubb:

    I was just commenting on my ability to turn a NSW sex thread into "Stay in school kid!" :rofl:

    Diplomas always give you something to fall back on if your entrepreneurial endeavours don't completely pan out.

    Secondary school really is more about playing their game, to get you to where you want to go. Nobody likes secondary school. It is all busy work that won't help you in life - but it isn't supposed to. All it does is separate the world into alphas and betas. But it gets you to college where you can study whatever you want and allows you to craft an independent research project that is truly you before you graduate. Then you go get a professional or graduate degree, to be practical, while trying to do other things if that really is your desire.

    Stay in school as long as you can before you leave; the statistics are not good on you going back once you leave. :hs:

    And no, a ten page paper on Rome will not change the world. But it isn't supposed to. It's just an assignment. Like if you start your own company, you will have assignments to find investors; do corporate relations and such. The world works by completing one task at a time, and doing it to the best of your ability.

    :eek3: :eek3:
     
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    I'm the Will of my group... that being said I always thought he was cute so post some of your pics I don't think I've seen any of you. :hs:
     
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    :h5: Being the Will of the group :bowdown:

    I just grabbed this out of the style lab thread I made...I blocked my face there for obvious main-forum reasons :o

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