people that date ugly

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  1. filho do deus

    filho do deus New Member

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    When you see 2 fat ugly people dating, I always wonder, are they attracted to each other for real real? Or do they just both have to settle? I dont think I could date someone I dont find attractive.

    by attractive i mean, looks, personality, etc.
     
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    this thread was totally inspired by my poll amirite? :big grin:

    I think that in most cases people date the best person they feel they can get. I would elaborate on the exceptions but I have to run to the grocery store right now.
     
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    nope, however after reading the title i thought you made the same thread until i clicked it. great minds think alike. :bigthumb:
     
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    this
     
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    So does that mean if you see a hot person with an ugly person, the hot person has esteem issues?
     
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    well i'd say, other than exceptions, you rarely see a good looking dude with an uglier chick, and if that does happen it's cause either he has no game, or yes has esteem issues

    if it's a good looking girl with an ugly dude, the dude obviously has some way to show value, or maybe she has esteem issues :mamoru:
     
  7. Falconer

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    Sometimes.

    Exceptions:

    - The hot person used to be ugly and the ugly person was with them through that time and so they know that they like them for who they are and not because they're hot; loyalty

    - the hot person is dating an uglier person by choice so they can have more power, get away with more, etc., because the ugly person will think "i'll never get anyone else this hot, I guess I'll put up with them cheating on me," etc.

    - the ugly person is a guy and the hot person is a chick and the guy is rich and socially powerful and the chick is attracted to that.
     
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    I typically date the best women i can find, and fuck the hottest (and everything else) in between. :hs:

    it would be nice if i could find a woman who was as hot as the hottest girl I can get and awesome, but thats exceedingly rare.
     
  9. wolfskymoon

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    They are probably either settling or their judgement gets clouded by the fat in their eyelids. I might be hideous looking, but I'd never date someone who I am not physically attracted to. I'd rather stay alone and fuck myself.
     
  10. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Wow. You are going to be one bitter 50 year old virgin.

    Also. You have to remember that some guys go for different things. What is ugly to you may be attractive to someone else. I know someone who is pretty good looking but is attracted to thick/chubby women. He knows that is not what society thinks he should be dating.
     
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    you know sometimes i think about if i'm really just attracted to thicker women or if i'm just settling and rationalizing :dunno:
     
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    Depends on the porn you look at.

    I think a big part of why Gianna is popular is because she is the apex of what many people could get in real life. Hot enough to be hot, big enough to be attainable.
     
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    I love it when hot chicks date ugly dudes. Otherwise I'd never get laid! :hsugh:
     
  14. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Personally I'm just more attracted to thicker women as well. I've dated skinny girls in the past and just found them not for me. It's a personal preference.

    Personally, I find most of the supposed hot people around far too skinny. Like fucking an ironing board with a hole drilled in it. I like curves :naughty:
     
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    but see, i've never dated a skinny girl, closest i've ever gotten was a 5'9, 127 lbs girl, which is small enough to not really be called thick, but she didnt have that tight toned body
     
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    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    are you saying typical is that thin is hot? well, this is what media thinks for sure. But I heard from some guys I know and even some guys here that thickers are hotter:dunno:
     
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    Thats rail thin. I don't think that can even be right. :barf:
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    It's rail thin by normal standards.

    For the internet that's getting close to obese
     
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    Well, I usually base it around what I look like, I am shorter, 5'6" and weigh a bit more, at about a size 8, and I couldn't even IMAGINE me even being that small of a weight. But, as I girl I don't find skinny attractive on girls either, even at my heavier weight, I find myself more attractive looking. On guys I like love handles and such too, being thin just doesn't do it for me.
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Exactly. Attractiveness is for the individual to judge. Not for society.
     
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    i think we need pics of you to make a sound decision :hsugh:
     
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    :rofl: There's a few of my in the pic thread, but 30% of me is boob weight. :o
     
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    if you don't want to post them my inbox has room for nudes :mamoru:
     
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    beat me to it.
     
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    no trust me, that's not rail thin, she almost has a bit of tummy going, i dont know how 5'9 127 is not rail thin but she isnt
     

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