Penis chaffing?

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  1. MUCandie04

    MUCandie04 New Member

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    My boyfriend and I have sex basically every night, if not every other night. Usually after the third night in a row we've done it, he starts to get nasty chaffing all over his penis and creates these little scab like spots on the shaft and the head. He also experiences pain from it. So then we have to take a 1 or 2 day break in there to let it heal. I was just wondering what kinda precautionary, or post-sex solution there is for something like this. Like is there a special lotion or lube or something you all could recommend he can put on it afterwards that would keep it from drying up so bad. And no, it's not that I don't get wet enough, TRUST ME, I get soppy. How the heck do porn stars do this shit without their penises rotting and falling off?
     
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    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Do you use lube at all? You probably should. No matter how wet you get, #1 it always makes things a little more interesting, and #2 it sounds like you might not be getting/ staying wet enough for him. Maybe he is super sensitive? You know some lubes are actually reccomended as leather treatment or intensive lotions?? I know, I laughed too. I would reccomend either Eros, or the cheap version of it the body glide platinum.
     
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    Well, in all honesty, I don't think it's the fact that I'm not staying wet enough. I get alot of "oh you're pussy is so wet" and what nots while humping, but maybe I'm mistaken? I think he's too proud for lube, though. lol I've suggested it, and he was like "yeah right" Although, I leave the fan on when we're going at it cause I get so hot to the point where I just want to faint, so that may do a little overdrying.
     
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    Post sex shower. FTW!
     
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    Well, by the time we are done, it's usual 5:30 or 6 in the morning. And by then, we are just so damn tired. But I'll suggest that to him.
     
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    I'd go with lube...
     
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    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    gotta clean the penor afterwards... probably bacteria infecting it
     
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    is he circumsized?
     
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    id say afterwards u wash your shit and maybe a little lotion on it. thats my advice
     
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    Special lotion to keep it from drying??? :noes:
    Even though I have sex days in a row, my penis wouldnt try.
    The only thing i'd have done if i were him, i'd like take shower after sex and simply put lotion on it. Hope helps :naughty:
     
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    MUCandie04 New Member

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    yeah he's cirumcized
     
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    I really don't think it's bacteria. I mean, they are just little, little dry spots, like kinda flakey. They aren't like oozing pustules or anything like that. People are saying lube and lotion, so I'll give that a shot.
     
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    Dry spots can also be "leftovers" if you dont clean. Fluids dry, leave a film, film flakes off, if left there can take some skin with it.


    The solution to your problem is:
    1. Lube
    2. Rinse off the dick after

    Nothin wrong with lube, if he's "too proud for lube", he's an idiot.
     
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    that's standard protocol for us men...when so much blood is concentrated in our pubic region, we can't come up with much so we have a few standard lines to bail us out in times of need, that's one of 'em:)

    Too proud for lube? That's a new one by me. If anything, it should be an ego booster. *convo the next day w/friend* Yeah man, I was bangin' her and she had to lube it up to make it easier on her...and they say only black men are blessed

    I don't think the fan would affect his Johnson while it's buried.

    Question, are you shaved down there?
     
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    MUCandie04 New Member

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    yes, 0 hair down there
     
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    that's what I thought. do you keep it smooth or is there a couple days growth at times? if so, that's the problem. Keep it smooth!
     
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    That is not the problem at all I wouldnt think. A serious recommendation after rinsing/drying afterwards, is to use a sorbolene cream/moisturiser on the penis, this is awesome for keeping any of that shit to a minimum.
     
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    You wouldn't think? WTF?

    Just like it can hurt a womans face when it's rubbed against a man's face w/a couple days growth, it can hurt teh cac too. Speaking from experience, stubble down there + my cac = pain afterwards(is it even possible to feel pain during sex?) So yes, chaffing can occur under those circumstances
     
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    Sure, if youre rubbing your penis on her PUBIC MOUND. Intercourse usually requires the penis to be inside the vagina, where there is a distinct lack of hair.
     
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    and all that time I though I was penetrating:hsugh:

    I guess I haven't found a girl who doesn't have hair around her pussy lips yet, can you take a picture of yours so I can see what it looks like?

    My cac doesn't just slide right in, it's got to be worked a lil bit to get it all nice and lubed, and when I do penetrate, the pussy lips ain't wide open giving me an expressway to the uterus. Geez, didn't think I'd have to get into the details. If it's too much to ask for you to keep your taint smooth if you're gonna shave down there, then deal with his chapped dick. Fuck it, slap some carmex on that bitch, it'll clear up real quick
     
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    i used to get that, well not really the chaffing, but the extreme soreness after a couple close sex sessions.

    not relaly sure what to recommend though besides some astroglide or something, maybe use some vitamin e moisturizer or something? i dunno =\
     
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    Get the same thing, but for me it usually only lasts the night, goes away by the next session. Its especially around if its multiple times in a day.
     
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    Yes, and sometimes some lotion.
     

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