PE, anybody else?

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  1. Big Kahuna

    Big Kahuna New Member

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    Whats up ppl. I dont care about being embarrassed, from time to time I have PE. If I drink alot, hook up with a girl after the bar and where a condom I can usually do pretty good, but sober its not working. I can fix it by wearing a condom that has the desensitizer in it, but I can even feel my dick and if im not going to town it will go soft. Anybody have any tips or tricks? jerking off first doesnt cut it because it just simply cant always be done.
     
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    in on this crew :hs: wish I had advice
     
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    increase test
     
  4. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    I haven't had PE since the 10th grade. And that year was weird because we'd split the semesters. One semester of Health, one of PE.
     
  5. tibbar

    tibbar aww fennec foxah aww

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    I have the opposite problem, condoms fucking suck, and it takes forever for me to get off.
     
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    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    Buy a Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit (STU). Train yourself to not blow too early when your penis is getting lots of sensation.

    I'm serious.
     
  7. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Rhythm?

    :dunno:

    Everyone should know their stroke number (insert katt williams clip)
     
  8. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Go down on her until she cums. Then it doesn't matter as much how fast you blow your load.
     
  9. Dreams2Reality

    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    Happens to me one in every six or seven times I have sex. Wish I knew how to make it dissappear for forever.
     
  10. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    Don't worry about it too much.

    At the end of the day, who really gives a shit if SHE gets hers amirite?
     
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    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    It's pretty embarassing dude, especially if you've never been there.

    I mean, getting over-excited the first time, ok cool. But to sleep with someone, and create expectancies, to then go ahead, foreplay for 20-30mins, then when you get to the deed it's over in 2-4 mins..

    Sometimes I can go weeks without it ever happening. Other times, as I've posted in the past ~2 years ago, I've had it happen 3, 4 times in a row.

    There are some sexual dysfunctions that create over stimulation in the males head of the penis but I don't want to believe that.

    Have you tried a sex therapist, OP?
     
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    :rofl::rofl:

    Its a competition, who will first cum. So what if I always win, amirite? Screw her for being a looser.
     
  13. Viper

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    But for some reason the first time or two I have sex with a girl I go faster than usual (excited much?) then if the relationship continues we end up switching to bare back so I'm not rubbing blisters by the time I cum.

    How did I get this way? Practice practice practice. :wiggle:
     
  16. outlaws

    outlaws C.R.E.A.M.

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    wats PE?
     
  17. Franco

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    penile embaressment.
     
  18. Viper

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    Physical Education
     
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    *sigh* pre-mature ejaculation
     
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    haha reminds me of a chappelle bit

    "how could you cum?! how could you?!"

    "Well...I was fucking. what were you trying to do?"
     
  21. Viper

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    :rofl::hsugh:

    If you're going to fix it, fix it right.

    "what's"
     
  22. antihero

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    Guys this is not rocket science.

    1. wack off daily and don't let yourself cum any sooner then 10-15 minutes. what this means is you get close. stop for the shortest amount of time possible and then continue. the more you practice the closer you should be able to cut it, and the less cool down you should need for resuming. Ideally, this shouldnt be much more then a few seconds.
    2. apply what you learned from the above to sex by stopping the action before the point of no return, cooling off, and getting back into it. If you can beat it a few times, it will start to happen less and less frequently. If you want to get fancy, I throw in some grinding moves that keep the ladies entertained for the few moments while i get things back under control.


    Ie, if you are ready to cum after 5 minutes, but avoid it, the next time you might make it 7, or 8. get past 2 or three close calls and you can probably last a respectable amount of time without issue. If you are with a girl you can be honest with, fill her in on the plan and let her know shes gotta stop when you need to stop. obviously the girl either has to be co-operating 100% or you have to be the one controlling the action. woman on top is a terrible way to go when trying to learn this.

    The more you practice the better at controlling it it will be.

    Thats as simple as can be and will work for everyone.



    there are other things to consider as well, but this is the simplest and most effective way.
     
  23. just_another_on

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    Bolded is the getter for me , :rofl:

    If a girl knows how to ride and shes on top, im done in minutes, regardless :rofl:
     
  24. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    Did anyone else LOL at this, god, that was funny. :rofl:
     
  25. THoC

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    yup. my gf of 2.5 yrs knows better then to start on top w. me. :hs:
     

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