SRS Part of the reason I'm an introvert v.everyone I meet is nuts

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  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    I posted this in the main forum but I'll post it here for serious replies.



    I'm not the most social person in the world (altho I'm trying to get better). But every time I do meet a new person, they usually end up being fucking nuts.

    Like you make the mistake of talking to some dude at the gym one time and suddenly he thinks you're best friends, always coming up to you and talking to you, inviting you places constantly, talking to you while you're in the middle of your sets, etc. Normal people don't do that shit. I swear, I met this guy at the gym once, and literally, the second time I saw him he asked me if I would lick this one chick's asshole. I was like "what the fuck?" Who talks to someone they just met like that?

    Take that scenario and extrapolate it to any situation besides the gym.

    That's why I don't talk to people.

    No company > bad company.

    That's why I'm an introvert.
     
  2. Xtreme2k2

    Xtreme2k2 GTI Crew ಠ_ಠ OT Supporter

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    too much, too fast?
     
  3. Falconer

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    More like:

    Them - hey, can I get a spot?

    Me - sure.

    Them - btw, I'm Joe Schmoe

    Me - I'm Falconer

    Ok then that's that. That's pretty a pretty normal and common scenario, right?

    Then like next time I see them, it's all

    Them - omg, hey Falconer! You wanna go hang out tonight? No? How about tomorrow? no?! Whoa, that chick is so hot! Would you lick her asshole? Dude I would pozz her neghole so bad! Motherfucking Cubs! Did you see the game last night? Fucking (insert player's name here) is such a fucking douche! Omg fucking steroid using faggot and he STILL can't hit a home run. Hey, give me your phone number so we can hang...

    Me - what the fuck?

    Usually I start ignoring them after the first 2 sentences, anyway, because I am suspect of people who randomly come up to me and talk to me, anyway.
     
  4. Liddy

    Liddy Not enough cowbell.

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    Mabye your definition of what is socially acceptable is different to theirs?

    Some people feel the need to share more information than is necessary. Others are just desperate for friends. :dunno: Why let it bother you?
     
  5. Hellcat

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    Maybe you just have a sense around you that makes people feel comfortable/open with you. You shouldn't necessarily take it as a negative thing, although the TMI stuff is kinda out there.
     
  6. tryfuhl

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    nigga is tryna help you out son
     
  7. GregFarz78

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    Thats weird I never notice shit like that at my gym :dunno: maybe you just look too friendly
     
  8. marauder

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    I get left in peoples bedrooms... and yeah... I could be going through their shit etc. and they wouldn't know, I would never leave someone I don't really know in rooms of my place doing stuff.
     
  9. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :rofl: you crack me up falconer
     
  10. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    That's the good thing about meating OTers, you can start talking to them like that right away and they won't be weirded out :mamoru:
     
  11. familyguy101

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    I think your exaggerating this a bit. Your describing people acting in a way that I have never seen before. This was probably just one or two weird people that you met.
     
  12. BradUF

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    Whats wrong with inviting people out you just met to come party?
     
  13. Falconer

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    Non-verbal nuances that I can't explain through text, I guess.
     
  14. calisteph6

    calisteph6 Active Member

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    So did you want to lick her ass?
     
  15. xxxdubber

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    I can relate to you 100%
     
  16. Irvin Washington

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    Everybody has their quirks. Introverts are just better at hiding them. Some people seem to have the urge to share things that sound dumb as hell, or extremely over-exagerated. I prefer to sit back and watch people like this converse with each other. Taking part in those kinds of conversations makes me feel :ugh: inside. :o
     

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