Ok... So a while back, my dad was discovered to be cheating on my mom, and had made plans to buy a house with the mistress, leave his family, etc.... He did just that. Packed his bags, walked out one day, bought a house with the mistress, and started a new life. They still haven't finalized the divorce, and it's getting messier and messier every day. My mother and my two younger brothers have never really recovered from this. I have moved on to the point that I have been seeing my dad on holidays again, but ONLY him, and only in public. Lately, he's been forcing the issue of me meeting the mistress, and accepting her into my life. I'm not down with that. Especially considering the effect it's had on my family, HOW he made his decisions, and especially considering that I haven't even fully forgiven him yet. I wrote this email in reply to his latest, almost forceful attempt at getting me to meet her. In his letter he accused me of not taking the situation seriously, and equated me not wanting to meet his mistress to him purposly not inviting any of our signifigant others. I want your opinion on the email before I send it. Thanks in advance. Sorry it's so long.