im almost 20 years old. i have never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, anything like that. whenever i get into social situations, i tense up and get really nervous around them. i dont know why, i have just always been like that. i just cannot talk to girls. my friends try to force me into situations with other girls and i just get really uncomfortable and clam up. is there anything that i can do to help break me of this? im just so tired of being alone/ without a girlfriend. i really dont even want a girlfriend for sex and stuff like that. i just want someone there that i can talk to whenever i need to. is that wrong? im just so lost and confused. is there any help/hope for me?