LGBT Out

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  1. Bacchus

    Bacchus Skinny Guy

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    Came out to my friends yesterday.

    I experimented during my old rave days (who hasn't?), but never really went through with it.

    Been finding dudes hot for a while, but have been in denial - trying to save face, since i've been lying to myself and them.

    No more.


    hoorah.


    :mamoru:
     
  2. dude101

    dude101 New Member

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    Congrats man..welcome to the darkside :p
     
  3. Fate13

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    It will feel like it gets worse at first, but then it gets way better.

    Congrats
     
  4. Bacchus

    Bacchus Skinny Guy

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    word.

    I'm FAR from ever being able to come out to my mom (sunday school teacher), and step dad (a christian life-councilor) - but it's a start.

    It'd be a metric shitload easier to tell them that i'm straight up gay, and that's the way God made me.

    But telling them my door swings both ways will only give them fuel for their argument that it's "my decision"
     
  5. Bacchus

    Bacchus Skinny Guy

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    And here i thought i finally saw the light.
     
  6. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I once told my Pastor that Jesus said to love everyone. So I try to do just that. Repeatedly.

    Congrats on your first step. Don't rush your next steps, as you will know when you are ready. Coming out is a process.
     
  7. Bacchus

    Bacchus Skinny Guy

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    :hug:
     
  8. Nitwit

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    good stuff my dude...it's gonna feel awesome everytime you come out to someone else...there tends to be a rush for a little while...of course, that's as long as they're accepting of it.
     
  9. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Congratulations on being honest with yourself.

    There comes a time when you'll realize that you need to live your life to make yourself happy, not to make your parents happy. And that time usually comes around the time that you fall in love.

    If you ever have any questions or need to talk through some shit, come talk to us here... We're a close community and we care about each other's well-being.

    :hug:
     
  10. D-FENS

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    congrats. it's great no longer having to feel like you're living with some big secret all the time.
     
  11. Bacchus

    Bacchus Skinny Guy

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    :big grin:

    and no more need for the "no homo" in the F&N forum

    lol
     
  12. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    pics?
     
  13. Bacchus

    Bacchus Skinny Guy

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    lol

    You're amber-alert-looking ass is excited to see fresh meat? :p

    i've got lots of half naked ones from my fitness blog here ( http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=4154719 )...so you can see my progress from being skinny to getting fat, to getting skinny again.

    But, if you wanna see some (mostly) clothed ones..

    Me at pride last year...

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    at a motown party....

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    with my newborn niece....

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    sometime in the fall, trying to be seksi

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  14. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    :rofl: awesome.

    you're cute :)
     
  15. Bacchus

    Bacchus Skinny Guy

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    Thanks :big grin:

    i kinda liked the attention that day. :mamoru: I was kinda like a tourist attraction, had these asian people doing the peace sign and taking their pics with me

    I'm quite sure i was fap material for many old dudes that night.
     
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    COME OUT OF THE CLOSET
    NOVO ASKS FOR PICS

    It's standard procedure here. At least it happened to me when I came out :dunno:
     
  18. Bacchus

    Bacchus Skinny Guy

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    no problem, i'm a bit of an attention whore.

    :bigthumb:
     
  19. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...then you'll fit right in!
    ;)
     
  20. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    :rofl: :o :hsughno:
     
  21. Tom Ford

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    then you should post more, with better lighting :naughty: ;)
     
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    slut
     
  23. Josey

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    Mom mom still swears it's some phase I'm going thru because my door also swings both ways...I just kinda roll my eyes at her and move along...

    Then she'll comment on a guy on the tv and I'll throw my 2 cents in and give her my opinion...always good for a laugh at her reactions..
     
  24. Bib-Lettuce

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    :rolleyes:
     
  25. Josey

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    You rolling your eyes at me or her?
     

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