SRS OT I am so fucked

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  1. Chickenbum

    Chickenbum TOTW Winnar & Fav '06 ;)

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    two weeks ago i hooked up with this girl, there were three girls at a bar and i grabbed one, and my mate ben also became friends with them.

    The girl i hooked up with was the sweetest and most innocent girl i have ever met, she actually liked me,

    me being the big shot hero that i thought i was, didnt pay much attention to her and thought i could do better,

    Now my mate ben is still hanging out with them and im hella jealous, why? because i think i actually like this girl.

    After a week of brushing her off and trying to get her off my case i tel her that i like her (after she tells me the same on sat night)

    Only to hear from her "i was mixed up, i think we should just be friends"

    I certainly fucked up a good thing, i was too concerned that my friends wouldnt like this girl, i even organised a date with her to which i told her two days before hand that i couldnt go through with it.

    She actually liked me and i just didnt care...it filled my ego enough to make me think ill get someone better



    then last night i had a massive fight with my work buddy and close friend Nick because him and i were out and he was making fun of me in order to get laughs from ladies.


    so right now, i have no friends, i made a girl that liked me, hate me, and now she doesnt even want to know me.


    I am so fucked up, i have no one to turn to. I even thought about taking the easy way out, my life is shit.
     
  2. Chickenbum

    Chickenbum TOTW Winnar & Fav '06 ;)

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    she told me i was too emotional,

    and its probably true, at first she wanted a relationship, i didnt i just wanted to play the field,

    i would be hot and cold to her, keen then not keen....what a fuck up
     
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    You screwed yourself. I guess you can fix that with your next time you find a girl.
     
  4. focalBlur

    focalBlur your does not equal you're

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    Fix things with your buddy

    don't worry about the girl, there will be others

    such is life
     
  5. Chickenbum

    Chickenbum TOTW Winnar & Fav '06 ;)

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    i feel so alone right now, no one is talking to me at all, i think i have made a lot of people hate me
     
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    pretty much
     
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    There must be more to the story than this, or your friends aren't as good of friends as you thought.
     
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    shit man, dont sweat it that much. youll be alright.
     
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    iDrive OTAP crew. Muradadog crew. GO GATORS!

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    best advice in the thread.
     
  10. Dodger Blue

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    Go up to the girl and just kiss her.
     
  11. Chickenbum

    Chickenbum TOTW Winnar & Fav '06 ;)

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    i think i might be bipolar, im gonna go see the doctor
     
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    This is the best advice :cool:
     
  13. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    Might be the best thing for you to do.
    Also, talk with your buddy and try to see if you can fix the friendship. There's probably not much you can do with the girl. There will be others though. She might've been good, but something better will come along. For now, just stick to fixing your frienship. :hug: Hang in there, things will get better.
     
  14. mg

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    1. so you're trippin balls over a girl you met at a bar.
    2. you got into a fight with your good friend, nick, over this same girl.
    3. you're thinking about ending your life?

    1. girls come and go... stop stressing about this ONE girl... i don't care how much you believe it could have been "TRUE LOVE OMG"
    2. you and nick will be butt buddies again within a few days, a week... whatever
    3. man up.
     
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    Chickenbum TOTW Winnar & Fav '06 ;)

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    Dude THANK YOU SO MUCH....


    i read that and felt good about myself, im gonna have a good weekend now :) cheers!



    and thanks to everyone who posted here :) you guys rock
     
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    Chickenbum TOTW Winnar & Fav '06 ;)

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    you are so right, if this girl was decent, i wouldnt have played her off in the first place, she was nothing, and is nothing :)


    fuck her!
















    anyways she stopped talking to me, she said i apparently wanted too much from her...meh fuckin stupid bitch, im tryin to hook up with another one at the moment, could be gettin laid on the weekend ;) lol
     
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    Definitely bipolar, wow. Look at your responses. Go see your doctor please.

    This was a no-biggie incident. Unless you guys down under take things differently, guy friends get pissed at each other and forgive each other very soon after; we just don't care enough to stay mad unless it's something big like the other guy fucked your girlfriend.
     
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    Stop thinkin like that. Women like confidence. When you act emo and sad they see it, and dont want it. THEY are usually (please dont flame me women!) the weaker emotional ones and look to the guy for strength! You need to change your outlook. Fix things with your buddy. Then when you go out, SHOW her that you are stable and confident and not emotional. Hope this helps.
     
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    :bigthumb:
     
  20. Chickenbum

    Chickenbum TOTW Winnar & Fav '06 ;)

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    im all good now
     
  21. Chickenbum

    Chickenbum TOTW Winnar & Fav '06 ;)

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    i met another more amazing girl, and im taking it slow, not getting too worked up about it, this new girl is an 8-9/10 absolutely gorgeous.

    she thinks im interesting, so im taking her out to dinner, i feel great
     
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    Chickenbum TOTW Winnar & Fav '06 ;)

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    well the reason i was upset about this girl before was because i WANTED a relationship, i was prepared to get into anything with anyone....you know what i mean, companionship.


    now i have met Lauren (new girl) and she has blown me away with both looks and personality and made all the other girls seem plain and stale!

    For her to win me over all she needs to do is appreciate what i do for her and accept me for me, and trust me, im better now :)
     
  23. eljefedetonto

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    as far as the girl goes, it sounds like a classic case of her wanting what she thinks she can't have. once she can, she's bored.

    but way to stick it to your friend. if I thought my friends were disrespecting me to boost their image/ego, I'd be pretty pissed too.

    it's fun to take jibs at each other, but usually everyone knows where the line is.
     
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    Chickenbum TOTW Winnar & Fav '06 ;)

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    **********Update**********


    I met up with the hot chick on saturday night, took her out for a meal, took her back to my hotel room...etc all good.

    after that we talked and she gave me the "i need to tell you something" speech, she told me she had a boyfriend, and she basically cheated on him to be with me, and that she doesnt think we could see eachother again...oh wells shit happens :) i had fun, this weekend gonna meet another....and another
     
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    You do realize that while you're talking you could easily bypass this problem?

    You: Oh that's so funny, your boyfriend must love that!
    Her: I don't have a boyfriend.
    You: Oh!

    Whenever I talk to a girl I always slide the "assumption" in about them having a boyfriend.
     

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