OT G's: last minute resistance, "i don't even know you" what is the proper response?

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  1. macbook bro

    macbook bro Guest

    this has tripped up my game on a recent occasion and caused me to not get laid. what do you say?
     
  2. HuskiRuski

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    it usually doesn't mean anything. you can say almost anything to that and still pull it off. it has more to do with how you say it.
     
  3. Kev07

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    last time i got that, i responded with, "well i'd like to get to know you" and went back to making out.

    she didnt put out that night though :mamoru:
     
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    "Well its a learning process baby"
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

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    :rofl: I'd punch the guy in the face

    TS, can you set the scene a little?
     
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    I don't know if this is ur style but I use objections like that as sexual barriers. In ye olde English it'd be something like, "We mustn't... We mustn't... ...(oh, but we must!)"

    So in this case, I'd agree with her statement (to derail the logic train) and at the same time continue increasing sexual tension:

    "I know... Like, we just met..." (pause, makeout)

    IOW communicating "I am on the same page, isn't what WE are doing SHEER MADNESS :noes:?"
     
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    I would help you out asdfska, but I don't even know you.
     
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    :rofl: shhh :mamoru:
     
  9. XxvODvxX

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    :rofl: I'd probably say something along the same line
     
  10. JohnJohnJohnson

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    saying it explicitly is different from expressing it with frame control, but :bowrofl:
     
  11. antihero

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    honestly id probably say something ridiculous.... Possibly related to how awesome breakfast is going to be tomorrow. Maybe something like 'when we get breakfast tomorrow im getting waffles with ice cream, breakfast aint shit without ice cream! What are you getting?'
     
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    oOh. it's like a magic trick, "QUICK, LOOK OVER HERE!"

    i imagine girls in the thread are thinking "i would see through such a blatant misdirection," but maybe they wouldn't in practice.
     
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    It's just a double back attack. They try to throw you off your game so you deflect and trip them up... Priceless! :cool:
     
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    You fell for the trick. My answer addresses their concerns while seeming not to acknowledge them. talking about likes and dislikes builds connection and making future plans help with the last minute resistance.

    Edit: i actually really like your answer but i think there is too much shark in my game to pull it off

    edit2: per mystery's interview, acronyms in mixed company are douchey
     
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    No I realized the value in what you said. I swear :x: I was only joshing. Makes a lot of sense.

    I could say what you said and pull it off though because I'm versatile :fawk:
     
  16. antihero

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    :eek3: you fooled me into actually using the word "trick" and this entire thread hasn't gotten blasted yet.
     
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    is there not a double-standard there? if it's ok to say with guys what makes it not ok with women around, would you say?

    edit: too unromantic? is it that part of the magic of socializing is keeping the gears hidden?
     
  18. antihero

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    because it gets woman's hackles up in a uniquely female way.

    though the mixed company I was referring to was those who know the acronyms and jargon and those who don't

    absolutely.
     
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    Honestly, this.

    As long as the woman can think it "just happened" then she isn't a slut/doing anything wrong/cheating/whatever/woman logic.
     
  20. giz

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    stop making out, talk to her for 2 minutes, and she'll probably jump you herself.

    thats what I've done in the past.
     
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    ^ But don't be even one tiny bit sullen.
     
  22. antihero

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    2nded. important to still be fun.... kinda like my solution.. jus sayin
     
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    I didn't read your response till now, but yeah. minus the "what are you getting at?"

    I'd just turn over, lay on my back and start talking about other stuff. I mean the girl is begging you to tell something about yourself, so call timeout for a minute and give her what she wants by showing her some personality.
     
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    I didn't say "at" I said what are you getting... as in what are you getting for breakfast when we go to breakfast together tomorrow.

    We are talking about the same thing.
     
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    Just say, "I'm awesome, you'll learn this."
     

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