This girl I know tells me she really likes me, and I really like her. Last night she went to a concert, and her ex was the only sober one there besides her. Shes an honest girl so she told me about this even though I don't really mind if she talks to him. The problem is, shes not really over the other guy. He took her virginity and they were seeing eachother for a good while. She asks me if I'm waiting till things are over with him before I ask her out. So I tell her that yeah, its been on my mind and that a lotta people would probly agree that it doesn't feel right to date a girl that has another guy in the back of her mind. I said I really do want to be more than friends, but that I'm worried about that. After this she says she doesnt want me to even hug her until I decide weather I'm waiting or not. She seemed pretty upset. But it's not really fair to me if shes going to have another guy on her mind. OT, did I fuck up? Is there any way to salvage things if I screwed it all up?