FRK Orgasms during sex..

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  1. Jinx

    Jinx Active Member

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    I've never had one. Or from oral.

    I can masturbate to my heart's desire and have multiple orgasms in two or three minutes. It's not that the partners I've had aren't up to par (they've been amazing), but I've just never climaxed. Is that normal?
     
  2. DuFresne

    DuFresne Guest

    I can't orgasm from a BJ, havent tried sex yet :sad2:
     
  3. foreverLost

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    I am in the SAME position.... i cant get off or even feel any type of climax, unless i use a vibrator in sinc..... sucks
     
  4. Yes have some!

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    neither can I. It doesn't help that my wife sucks (no pun intended) at it. She can only take a little bit of my cock...as she says "I have TMJ." I just know that it is an excuse b/c she is lazy and would rather lay there.

    She can get off from sex though. Even trade? Sex is nice, but it gets boring after a while.
     
  5. Diedemus

    Diedemus Google is my HMO

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    bah, they just wernt doing it right. I could get you off jinx :naughty:
     
  6. DuFresne

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    :werd: me too :kdubb:
     
  7. Freeze Time

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    Dont define orgasming from sex as normal, because everyones physiology is different, however since you seem to be worrying about it, that might just be what is holding you back from orgasming from sex or oral.

    In my experiance as a guy, if i worry about cumming too fast, then i do, but if i just relax and enjoy myself, i have porn star like stamina. :)
     
  8. scaryice

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    A lot of girls can't orgasm from sex, it's pretty normal.

    Here is my suggestion: Incorporate your masturbation technique into your sex life. So for example, if the only way you can get off is from lying on your back using a vibrator on your clit, do that while you're having sex.
     
  9. matkustaja

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    :rofl: :rly:
     
  10. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    well it bloody shouldn't be! :p
     
  11. NYM3

    NYM3 Is this teal life or is it....fanta-sea?

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    A couple girls i've been with never had an orgasm during sex....some of them never could.....some of them could with me. It depends on mainly on the girl, but part of it has to do with the guy and the situation also.

    The girl im with now....she never had before....and didnt with me unitl a little while into the relationship. For some people it takes a little getting used to each other and i've found for a few women...orgasms during sex have an emotional connection.


    Thats just what i've experienced :dunno:

    I wouldnt worry about it.

    Sometimes us guys dont orgasm during sex either :wtc:
     
  12. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    Learn to relax and let go. the rest happens naturally. once i finally got comfy and relaxed with Tigre, the orgasms happend contantly... but it took almost a year of having sexual encounters with him and becoming comfortable with my own body around him that i finally let go and let it happen.


    Know that your orgasm is all in your head.
     
  13. NYM3

    NYM3 Is this teal life or is it....fanta-sea?

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    QFT :bigthumb:
     
  14. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    I know for a fact that orgasm without physical stimulation is possible, so the mental aspect of letting go is what makes it happen. Paired with an expert gude or a really careful lover, you can come for hours without ever taking your clothes off.
     
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    I agree with the mental part. And also what NYM3 said about it depending on the guy... I was with three guys before aphoric. I came maybe a total of 3 times in those eight years. Now I can cum 3 times in 8 seconds with aphoric. And it's not uncommon for me to cum 30 times in one night with him... maybe you just haven't found the right combination of mindset + man yet :hs:
     
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    Wow, SOMEBODY does their research :mamoru:

    That may be just one time. But I think that she is saying that she generally just can't orgasm from sex. I came maybe once by each of those guys out of two or three years with each of them. But I wouldn't call that anything to write home to momma about.

    edit: oh, but she did say she never had one. But I can't really answer for her.

    edit: nimble, I saw a pink flash in your av, so I had to stare at it for a long time in order to see what that actually was :rofl:
     
  17. Jinx

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    I've made my wife orgasim from playing with her breasts ONLY. Never touching anywhere else. And no she was busy touching me, and not herself.

    Man I love her :)
     
  19. Jinx

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    So, gonna show me the ropes on May 9th? :naughty:
     
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    i'm in the same boat. or at least i think i am. i don't orgasm from sex. it feels really, really good... but i never quite get the same sensation as I do if I'm climaxing clitorally.

    or maybe its just that its a different feeling, and i don't know that thats actually whats happening...

    i know it sounds retarded that I may not know, but i can't be sure.
     
  21. Jinx

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    I think we are in the same boat.. The more we post in the same threads, the more I'm liking you. :o ;) Like, I know if he thrusts deep, hard and fast (doggy-style especially), I'll get tingly, and I'll tense up, but it's not the same as when I'm masturbating.
     
  22. NYM3

    NYM3 Is this teal life or is it....fanta-sea?

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    vaginal orgasms arent the same as clitoral orgasms :hsd:
     
  23. ShoverBot

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    damn i guess ive been realy lucky, every girl ive been with ive always been able to make them cum at least once if not multipul times
     
  24. DuFresne

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    Yes :eek3:
     
  25. Zee

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    Shit between my wife eating her and me sucking her tits.....Im sure she'd get her rocks off :naughty:
     

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