Oragasm during sex

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  1. riddic1985

    riddic1985 New Member

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    My girl says she doesnt orgasm during sex she just has a high point. It really seems like shes cumming but she says its jsut a high pont. How can i get her to cum is my question. She likes it better from behing and she reached her "high point" very quickly from there. Any other positions i should be aware of? This sex thing is all new to me lol but im learning and it sure is fun lol thanks
     
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    You could try teasing her for awhile or you could try a vibrator on her clit at the same time.
     
  3. Project X

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    whats the difference from feeling really good "climax/high point" then having a orgasm.. isnt it the same thing? does an orgasm mean that the girl cums? my girl has felt really good but said shes never had an orgasm in her life...
     
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    If you ask me it sounds like she's already having orgasms & they're probably just not as intense as she was expecting (or was told they would be by others). So rather than calling them orgasms she calls them "high points" instead. That's just my opinion based on your post...it could just be that she's on the verge of an orgasm & just doesn't follow it through...but those rarely leave you with a good feeling. Who knows.
     
  5. Project X

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    shes says the feeling lasts like 10 seconds.. she moans and breathes deeply.. like her body kinda get tights.. but shes like ive never had an orgasm..
     
  6. lauren

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    orgams have a release, and a deneaumeant....a high point does not.


    go down on her, more foreplay and in missonary (her on bottom, hold her shoulders) use a rocking motion instead of an inout motion. you want to try to keep contact between her clit and your pelvic bone at all times, but change pressure and rub a little. just banging isnt gonna do that.

    also, add some lub on her clit, and trim your hair if you dont already (she should too)...i dont recomend shaving bc of the burn and stubble.

    she probabably wont vaniginally orgasm for some time, but with a little work you should be able to get her to do a clitoral one.

    also, you can try using a vibe during sex to bring her to climax. and then slowly ween her off it by using it just up the the point almost, then using only your bodies to push it over the egde. with time, use the vibe less and less.
     
  7. Inthemidstofinsanity

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    I find there needs to be both inside and clit stimulation as well
     
  8. lauren

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    duh. penis is on the inside...and your pelvic bone is on the outside :)
     
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    not a bad idea at all
     
  10. Zak8022

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    this is something i've thought about doing with my girlfriend since she doenst climax from sex very often either.
     
  11. lauren

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    orgasming while jerking off and lying on your back is kinds different then from doing sex. hell, even trying to masturbate standing up is more difficult. if you can do it during sex, and train your body how to react, kind of show it 'look clit, this is what you are supposed to be doing now'

    pretty soon your body will be able to take over on its own. you just gotta show it how its done. :)
     
  12. Zak8022

    Zak8022 New Member

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    yea... pretty much what i was thinking too.
     
  13. BATMANs

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    have her do kegels while u fuck or play with her twat.

    Guys do it involuntary when their member is being stroked. It enhances the sexperience.
     
  14. Inthemidstofinsanity

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    THAT'S WHY I SAID AS WELL
     
  15. lauren

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    calm down. sorry :hs:
     
  16. Project X

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    my girl told me she that the only time she orgasmed was during wet dreams.. she has not had an orgasm during sex or anything else. this is from previous partners.. not with me
     
  17. mattsb2000

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    Try choking her
     
  18. Zak8022

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    wrong forum for that my friend. thats more FS material.
     
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    Sorry, old joke from another forum. :hsugh:
     
  20. :love: for a women to oragasm during sex is a process and you have to find the G SPOT guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  21. Zak8022

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    ah, my bad.
     
  22. DarthKoRn

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    My girlfriend dosent either. She needs clitoral stimulation to get off. Oh well.
     
  23. RockChick

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    girls have wet dreams??? goddamit, i must have missed that...

    PS: g-spot might help for some girls... i personally dont like that "i have to pee" feeling. well i didnt get off from g-spot stimulation yet and it does feel good, dont get me wrong but i really dont like that "damnit i need to pee" thing, lol. i dunno... :hs:
     
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    i know exactly what he means about his girl reaching a high point. thats as far as i get too. and for me, clitoral stimulation doesnt make me go near as high as direct g-spot stimulation with a guys fingers.... ooooh and eating me at the same time. i also know about the girls wet dream thing. when i lived with my bf he told me that on 2 separate occasions i had orgasms in my sleep... shaking and everything. dont understand how that happened but too bad i cant make it happen while im awake and i can feel it!
     
  25. JaxFlJon

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    My g/f didnt like that either. She immediatly ran to the bathroom and took a piss.
     

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