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  1. John Blaze

    John Blaze New Member

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    What are the negative and positive aspects of my image?
     
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  2. Metal

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    I'm not quite sure what you are asking for.. :dunno:

    I don't see anything negative about your "image"... Seems pretty normal to me.. Do you mean like how you dress and stuff? I usually dress similar to what you are wearing myself because it's comfortable and right now its summer time, I'm athletic, etc... Looks like you are probably into sports and pretty active too.. again, don't see any 'negative' aspects of your image. Sorry if I'm way off on what you are looking for an opinion on..
     
  3. beanolo

    beanolo It does a body good!!!1

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    Why is your image so important to you? Image doesn't mean anything.
     
  4. Metal

    Metal Active Member

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    Also true. :bigthumb:
     
  5. Peyomp

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    Negative: What you don't like about your image.

    Positive: What you do like about your image.
     
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    That about sums it up. I see nothing particularly bad about the image you've shown here.
     
  7. Peyomp

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    Nice eyes. What do you want?
     
  8. John Blaze

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    Certain things have happened lately that have made me question the way i look.
     
  9. KatWoman

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    Are you questioning the way you look because of the judgment of others?
     
  10. John Blaze

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    Sad, but yes.
     
  11. deusexaethera

    deusexaethera OT Supporter

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    You know what you do and don't like about yourself. There's no point in getting other people to continue judging you if you're already feeling judged; how can that possibly help anything? Respect your own opinion first.
     
  12. Cerridwen

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    Nice shoes. Wanna :naughty: :mamoru:

    Seriously though. You need to be happy with yourself and forget about what everybody else thinks of you ;)
     
  13. deusexaethera

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    Well...it's good to know what people think of you, it's not so good to care what they think of you. There is a fine line.
     
  14. mrchina

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    Get a haircut you hippy.
     
  15. John Blaze

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    That's what i am trying to discover(for some reason i'm never quite sure how others perceive me). It's hard to get an "actual" opinion from someone you know(bias), that is why i posted here.
     
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    SpaMan Mind over matter.

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  17. deusexaethera

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    The bias is part of the opinion; you can't escape that. What I'm saying is it's fine to be informed as long as you only concern yourself with your own opinion.

    EDIT: correction. The bias IS the opinion.
     
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    honestly....you seem like a nice guy but you are pretty much devoid of muscle mass....but then again I'm a competative lifter and thing anyone over 5'10" and under 200lbs is a twig.
     
  19. Lanemoje

    Lanemoje Guest

    -you're too skinny, get some muscle mass
    -your hair DOES NOT fit well with your face structure AT ALL, cut it
    -get a tan, asap, your skin appears to be more white than Michael Jackson's
     
  20. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    Fair enough. :bigthumb:
     
  21. Brigante

    Brigante i'm a lurker without an avatar, deal with it

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    depends on who it is you want to judge your image. is it a girl, is it a prospective employer, is it a colleague, coach you're trying to try out for a sports team on, or....? can't speak for girls but let's say you came into my office for a job interview. i know you're not dressed or groomed for an interview in that pic but aside from that, first impressions are positive. you appear relaxed yet have a confident and decisive expression on your face. no visible tatoos, body piercings, facial hair so at least in my office setting, those are all good things. be yourself, you'll tend to attract the people you can relate with and for those that think negatively of you, you're better off without them anyway.
     
  22. John Blaze

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    Yea, i've been working on it for the past few months via tanning salon, but it's a slow process for someone with my skin tone.

    Besides all of that, am i an attractive guy?
     
  23. Lanemoje

    Lanemoje Guest

    You bet you are. Don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. If you look around closely enough, you'll see that you are far ahead of most folks. You, me, he, she, we all have small imperfections, that can be fixed.
     
  24. John Blaze

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    :) Thanks.
     
  25. Metal

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    Good advice in this thread, you should be good to go Joe.. Don't be so hard on yourself man.. How old are you?
     

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