I have a friend I've known for about 4 years and have always liked. We've been FWB for about a year and a half, though it's difficult because I moved and only see him a few times a year. Because we've been friends for a while, most of the people I know, he knows too. We act like we're dating, we talk for hours every day, say I love you (even though he isn't IN love with me, I am in love with him). The last time I went to visit him he had lately been messing around with other girls who I had never met. I didn't want to "get back at him" like he thinks, I didn't even want to do anything with any other guys but I got drunk and things happened. He views as what I did as really bad and unforgivable, since the guys I messed with are friends/acquaintances of his. I guess my question is who is right? I don't think what I did was any worse than what he did. I know the whole idea of FBW is that you can still do stuff with other people, but we're a little more emotionally tied to each other than we should be for this arrangement to work.