Okay, so I tend to leap before I look. This, I have done yet again. I started a new job and have been working closely with this guy since our first shift. Immediately we kind of hit it off. We laugh all the time together but we've also had some decent conversations. now, anyone who knows me, knows that in spending this much time with him, the topic of sex would arise. We've discussed alot of things in this area. I was as honest with him as I thought he could handle. He was the same. so apparently, due to a failed relationship and moving back to this city, he hasnt gotten laid in 3 months and says he hasnt masturbated in years coz to him its boring. "yanking on his own cock" does not turn him on. So immediately, a billion things rush into my mind, one being "how the fuck could you NOT masturbate?! I think I would die!" and "what the hell is wrong with this guy?..." anyways, so after hanging out during work, on breaks and after work for a bit, we decide we should get togther and chill outside our uniforms. so tuesday night he brings his guitar over to give me a lesson (which seriously WAS the intention there) but between the 2 of us there was maybe 10 minutes total hands on guitar time. his lack of sex came up again and I took hardcore pity on him (and being in a little bit of a rowdy mood myself, judgement a bit skewed), kissed him. we all know where this lead to. So we fucked. It was ... uhm.. alright. he doesnt like getting head at all. I havent begun to understand why but he says its just something he doesnt enjoy. so I got rushed through this blowjob which is issue 1 coz I HATE being rushed at all and I love to suck cock. LOVE IT. I was about to settle in and give him one of those kickass hour long ones. mmmmmm... but I let it go and moved on to getting fucked. which he decently did but was def NOTHING special. It wasnt really all that awkward after and in the morning he averagely fucked me again. So this is the thing. looking back on the events, I'm pretty sure its not really something I want to do again. although, me being a stupid ass, I'll prolly let it happen again anyways. but I have to work with this guy and I dont want to be all flat out "uhm, yeah, that was crap. we WONT be fucking again..." and I'm not going to straight up lie to him about it saying it was awesome. I suppose I should have factored in our work ties BEFORE sleeping with him but I leap before I look and kinda stick myself in places like this. so minus comments about me being kinda whorish... anyone got anything helpful?