One Night Stand

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  1. jaywalk85

    jaywalk85 New Member

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    Well, I got major drunk on Saturday night and ended up stumbling back to my apartment drunk with a cute soririty girl. Being drunk, I remember very little, but the condom broke (she's on birth control). When we woke up Sunday, we fucked again.

    I was feeling a bit wierd after that and was a little bit of an asshole, not offering her anything to eat or anything. We got dressed and I took her back to her dorm and gave her a hug. I acted completely disinterested.

    Thing is, I would probably see this girl again. Did I blow it by being a dick?

    Advice? Comments? This is not my typical weekend, so this is somewhat new territory.
     
  2. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

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    Why were you a dick?
     
  3. jaywalk85

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    I was feeling a little sick from the night before. And like I said, this was new to me, so I was a little stunned that it had happened. I wasn't calling her names or anything, I just wasn't that friendly, didn't ask for digits or anything, I think I might have given her the impression that I wanted her out as quick as possible.
     
  4. kiri

    kiri New Member

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    if you'd like to see her again, send her a message on facebook or something. i'm sure that being a little standoffish one morning when you're both hungover and over-tired won't make her think you're a total dick
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    To be honest...she's probably done it before...and if you really were interested in seeing her again I'm sure you could ask her out and she'd go (seeing as how she's already slept with you and girls are notorious for going on a date with a guy after a one night stand in hopes they don't look like a slut). The problem is would you guys really have a chance at a real relationship, though I'm not sure if you care to even have that.
     
  6. jaywalk85

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    Yeah, that's what I was thinking, there's no way this is the first time. I'm not particularly looking for a real relationship, just some fun on the side, I was just afraid that I might have pissed her off.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ahh ok, well you definitely have a shot at just having a casual/sexual relationship. Why not call her or try seeing her (if you don't have her number) in the next few days and asking if she'd like to get together?
     
  8. jaywalk85

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    I sent her a facebook message earlier, which was probably too soon, but it's done now. Haven't gotten a response yet.

    I'm also slightly afraid that I have AIDS now.
     
  9. razi

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    worry about hpv or hs-2 more than AIDS.

    depending on what you wrote and the tone of your message, being a little too soon might not be bad. Just be confident and you'll be fine.

    Next time, don't get so damn drunk.
     
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    :rofl:
     
  11. Jackie Treehorn

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    :rofl: You don't have AIDS. Herpes or warts... maybe :mamoru:

    I guess you'll find out if she thought you were a dick or not if she replies.
     
  12. jaywalk85

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    Me - I could have been a little friendlier yesterday morning, I was feeling sort of strange. Nights like that will do it to you...

    Chick - It's cool. The new picture's a bit creepy tho...



    Me - I was a creepy baby. And I was a complete asshole yesterday. Since I didn't even offer you any breakfast, let me make it up with some coffee this weekend.
     
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    jaywalk85 New Member

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    Waiting for a response
     
  14. crazy15

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    LOL. oh god please stop. you need to learn to e-flirt better.
     
  15. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Sending a msg or facebook comment = good idea
    Sending a msg and writing what you wrote = bad idea
     
  16. wack0

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    she doesnt seem terribly concerned

    let it go
     
  17. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    :werd: You're going to blow it. Yeah, you were an asshole; but countering it by being TOO much of a nice guy is going to scare her away just as much as being an ass would.
     
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    i thought his message was fine :dunno:
     
  19. demosnat

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    me too.
    Although I don't understand the 'creepy' part. I suppose thats an inside joke.
     
  20. It's over, you succumbed to being a nice guy. She's probably not coming back.

    JMEZZ is right on the money.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Nah, I doubt your chance is "over" in the least. She's probably quite slutty, which is why she's not upset that you were a dick the next morning.
     
  22. She's slutty, and he didn't stand out. What makes him think she wants to come back to even be a fuck buddy?
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Cause...slutty girls want sex. If she wanted a relationship then she might not talk to him again. If she's in need of sexual satisfaction (assuming he was decent) she'll see him again most likely.
     
  24. Plenty more where he came from. Then again you're a woman, maybe I should accept the slutty girls statement, being that they want sex. You would know them better than I would.
     
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    A one-night-stand sorority girl is not looking for a "nice guy". You were better off being a dick to her to get her attention.
     

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