Long time lurker but I'm looking for some serious advice. My wife of 8 years and I want to try one last time to make things work. We have been separated for a year now and I would like to plan a romantic evening. We live in a small college town and usually on the weekend it's over run with students. I think I have a hotel room with hot tub booked for this Friday night. My problem is I have never really developed any social skills with women because we were married when we were 19 and am having trouble coming up with ideas. She has suggested bowling, movie or a nice dinner here in town but none of that seems attractive to me. So OT, I am here to ask for your ideas. What would you have me do for the last big hurrah of my marriage?