Does this stuff really work?? I joined eharmony.com and I've got a bunch of matches but very few of them actually respond back. One did and we talked for a lot for a while but then she posted her pics and I was turned off immediately. I posted mine and I think she liked them but once I saw hers my attitude changed and i think she knew it. But now i'm talkin to this other girl who I thought I had more in common but she seems so un-interested...maybe cause she saw my pics Anyone here have success with these on-line dating sites??? I beginning to think a lot of them are just scams. Although Eharmony is one of the better ones i think...All the people on their commercials are not that great looking either so...it makes me think, where are all these damn women at?