On Average, how long do you wait to have sex w/ someone

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  1. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    I know it varies person to person, but what would you say is an average time frame?

    my last 3 g/f's

    1 month
    1st date
    3 wks....so i'd say average of about 2-3 wks.
     
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    i have sex with them before i meet them
     
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    Vysion New Member

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    This.
     
  4. Vysion

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    My bad. I meant this.
     
  5. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    i wonder if you should specify between SO and non-SO.
     
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    Lindsay Loham New Member

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    I've only had sex with two people. The first I waited 2 months, and the second I waited 3 hrs.

    :rofl:
     
  7. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    1st SO, about 2 weeks.
    2nd SO, about 8 hours.
    3rd SO, 1 year.
     
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    No sex by the third date, I'm out. Unless there's a weird circumstance.
     
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    :eek4::eek4::eek4::eek4:
     
  10. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    1 year?

    how'd you do that? i could see if you hadn't had sex yet, but there's no way that i could wait that long. if i really really REALLY liked the girl, i could wait 5-6 months maybe. & that's if i thought she was marriage potential.
     
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  12. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    haha yeah. It was rough at times...I guess you get used to it. She was a virgin...until we had sex.
     
  13. C.W.

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    longest about 6mo when I was 15
    Shortest about 1 week or around there
     
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    Rumbaar Inherent Omniscience OT Supporter

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    Dang, it always the first night or never for me.
     
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    If I think a girl is a serious prospect for a healthy LTR then I will put off the sexy shit for a while and get to know her. If she proves to me somewhere during that time that she and I wouldn't work long term, though, I see how long I can hit it before she asks "what are we?" and then I let things crumble from there.

    Serious: 1 month max

    fuck buddy: as soon as I can without looking like I'm just in it for the pussy
     
  16. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    1 or 2 meetings
     
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    Usually somewhere between 1 to 3 months I think. I will also wait longer if I think the relationship has good potencial. It's like the dynamics of the relationship change for the better or worse after you have slept together and it is nice to know eachother before that happens
     
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    I gotta say I'm blown away by all these people that will date for months and months on end with no sex. I'd literally go mental. Whackin it only does so much to satisfy the urge.
     
  19. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    maybe dating is just not about "the urge" for some people?
     
  20. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    I agree. I think I do whatever feels right for me. but reading some responses here, I think I would wanna wait at least one month to ditch away all the ones that are in it just for sex.
     
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    Yes and the more emotionally involved and interested you become, the better the sex!
     
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    Yes, not that there is anything wrong with sex. I think sometimes good relationships start like that. But it usually sucks afterwards when things break down because you are not willing or don't know how to put up with eachother aftert that stage. And when the machine breaks down, we break down part happens.. :mamoru:
    ..it just sucks alot of energy out of you and distracts from your life
     
  23. Thelonius

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    True. It's just such a base need for me..I have to have sex regularly or I start to get incredibly short tempered, can't concentrate on anything else etc. It's possible that I have a problem.
     
  24. Kinks

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    absolutely. the problem is your balls are full and need to be emptied. I have a similar affliction but if you do have a dry spell you get over the grumpy stage and forget about it..
     
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    I could never go more than a couple weeks if I was in a relationship with a girl.

    Casual dating/on and off, its taken me 3-4 weeks, but thats like maybe 1-2 dates a week.

    As soon as the first date has happened, obviously. But I did chase one gal for like 6 months til I finally got it :naughty:
     

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