http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=1043027&page=1&pp=25 Everything was fine with my ex, because I was more of the "asshole" type... when I fell in love with him, I totally turned into Mr. Nice, and that's when things changed. This is like... a revelation! I'm too fucking nice! The last couple of months with him... I was way too fucking nice, always offering to pay, offering to do things, always trying to make HIM happy. I feel so enlightened!