Older Women//Older men

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  1. Undeclared

    Undeclared New Member

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    So I'm like not even sure how to start this off, but I totally like older men/women. And I have a date with an older Gentleman later this week, I'm scared that if we go to bed, I won't have any idea as to what he wants to do, Do i just let him do all the work?
     
  2. THoC

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    an "older" man.... ill include myself in that description at 32.... will tell you what he wants/likes IF you are not already doing it.
     
  3. Undeclared

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    we aren't and that's another thing, is it okay to want to go to bed with him on the first night? or will that make him back off? Is it like a big no-no:nono:?!
    I'm nineteen, and he likes to make fun of me because of it. T_T
     
  4. Falconer

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    You're 19, how old is he?
     
  5. Undeclared

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    39 on thursday!
    I'm taking him out to dinner!:)
     
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    These threads never cease to amaze me
     
  7. radfad88

    radfad88 The Batman-O-Lantern

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    The age gap mentioned or the questions about "is it okay to sleep with an older guy on the first date"...?
     
  8. Undeclared

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    why?
    Is it a bad question?
    I don't think age has anything to do with loving someone.
    I only asked because i heard older men usually want to wait it out....
     
  9. Dahlia

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    Are you male or female?
     
  10. Undeclared

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    lol, female.
    i said older women because i'm also bisexual.
     
  11. Dahlia

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    Well, I say don't have sex with him if he is pressuring you or you aren't really feeling it. If you want to have sex with him the first night and both of you are into it then go for it. If he is the type of guy that wants to rule you out just for that than it wasn't meant to be anyways in my opinion.

    And he's a guy, most of them like similar things, but I'm sure he will let you know if he does/doesn't like something, and you should speak up for what you want as well.
     
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    radfad88 The Batman-O-Lantern

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    I'm with you on the age thing... although if it's a first date I don't know that you could consider it "love".

    The question just seems like a weird one to ask... I wouldn't be trying to sleep with someone on the first date unless I was really, really sure they were down with it too... kind of a case-by-case thing that you have to be in the moment to decide.

    You're both consenting adults (kind of, you can't buy alcohol or rent a car and he's old enough to be your dad), so do whatever makes you happy.
     
  13. Falconer

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    19 and 39?

    You can't even get into bars.

    He's starting to have to think about retirement.

    Besides attraction (him wanting sex and you having daddy issues), what do you possibly have in common?

    Him: "My portfolio took a hit today. Good thing I can deduct property taxes from my home on next years income taxes..."
    You: "OMG I LOVE LADY GAGA!! WANT TO GO SEE HER IN CONCERT? BUT I CANT GET A WRISTBAND AT HER SHOW CUZ I'M UNDER 21!"
    Him: "who?"
    You: "what are property taxes?"

    Troll thread.
     
  14. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    yeah pretty much. 98% chance he's just looking to bang some young chick. Which isn't a bad thing, provided TS realizes this.
     
  15. Undeclared

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    um, I'm 127lbs, but I dont see how that has to do with anything....
     
  16. Undeclared

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    first off; I do not have daddy issues.
    also i dont like bars because i do not consume alcohol and neither does he, or so he has told me. Therefore drinking is not a problem as we would be doing it anyways.

    I had like a major huge crush on lady gaga like, the first time her song"just dance" came out!:)

    uh, i'm prolly gonna sound stupid, but, What are property taxes?:hs:
    what we have incommon is that we both read the same books and have the same ideas and he's really nice to others and almost never gets mad with me and he takes me out to places i wanna go and ask's me how my day went and i am just inlove with him!<3
     
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  17. Undeclared

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    Well, I've known him for about a month and i finally asked him out last week and for me i guess it was like "love on sight"?

    urgh, my dad is ugh, he is way older.
    wayyyy older.
     
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  19. THoC

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    ya i know you are not having sex, i assumed that was the point on the thread. as in... when it does happen.

    as far as should you make him wait.

    are you ok w. doing it now? if so, no dont make him wait.
    there is really no reason to play games, for two reasons:

    1. if you wanna fuck and so does he whats the point of waiting?
    2. you dont want to hear this so you may want to "ear muffit"..... this wont last long.
    the guy is 39 and he is having some fun w. a 19 yr old. hell, if i was 39 (i would now too) id fuck a 19 yr old in a second if i was attracted to her. but would never be interested in anything long term.
     
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    Once you're even past 25 then a 19 year old is nothing but young, tight, energetic pussy.
     
  22. ForevererZero89

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    go back to the mall valley girl. you don't need to use filler words on the internet.
     
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    Ahhhh... its good to be a man.
     
  24. peoplescar

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    pics of ts
     
  25. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    That's a nice gap. I dated a 44 year old at 19. Was fun but didn't last :(.

    Now I'm 20 with 32. Still a bit of a difference but better, imo.
     

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