My last serious relationship, and now this relationship, both girls said "I can't really see you as the rough type." Don't get me wrong, I can get women off with the best of them, and I know she doesn't ALWAYS want rough sex, but it's still good to have. Now, the other night, my girlfriend and I had some rough sex. She said it was rough, but I am guessing it wasn't rough enough. I thrust hard, I pull her hair (usually for like 2-3 seconds at a time), I scratch her, I spank her (a little), I bite (somewhat --- just on the neck I guess), and all that good stuff. I guess usually when I want her to change positions I just say "roll over on your stomach" or "roll on your back". Should I just move her ass around? It seems like if I try to do that, she might get the awkward "what are you doing" as i'm beginning it. I'm pretty confident at regular sex/love making, but I guess I need my porn star inside of me to come out. Can you SEXPERTS post the tricks to good ROUGHHHHH sex? ROUGH!