Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by killerZees, Sep 5, 2006.
Does that mean she wants to have the sexors?
unless youre gay then, yes
you asked her what was for desert.... right?
Define more of the situation? I'd go with a probably (that's how I got one of my exes interested in me, haha)...but what day is it/how did she ask/what's she making, etc.
ask her if you should bring anything, like a bottle of wine or a box of condoms.
that'll get you a straight answer
Dinner at her house usually means a chance to get to know you better without the distractions of a dinner out. If you've been hanging out a while it might mean she has some interest in you as dessert but it could just be her way of finding out more personal info about you too.
Sex is default dessert after dinner. :lol:
nope. But i can't speak for all women. If I invite someone for dinner and teh relationship hasn't gotten sexual yet, It may ust mean 'i want to get to know you, maybe make out"
What is the status of the relationship?
If just friends then no sexors, if there is more than just friends then probably.
I had a friend of mine over for a "dinner party" for lack of a better term last night. Not even so much as an arm rub.
how old are you?
i'd say that might have a good bit to do with it as well.
when i was 15 and asked a guy to come over for dinner, i may have wanted to go out with him, but that didn't mean i wanted to fuck him then.
and even now, that might not be the case. it would depend on how long i've known the person, how long its been since i last had sex, and how attracted i am to them. i might have someone over thats just a friend that i don't want to fuck.
i'd say that dinner doesn't necessarily mean sex. you might want to check your resources and go along prepared just in case. but i wouldn't go into it headlong thinking that it was going to happen... just for your own peace of mind
good luck to you anyway. i'll be rooting for you.
One way to find out for sure....show up naked.
its a third date, first date, coffee, second date dinner at a restoraunt, third date she invites me over for home made sushi.
asking women for advice on women eh?
shut up abomb you stumpy faggot
Seriously, you don't ask women for dating advice.
Women give great advice on a lot of stuff, but dating is not one of them.
The subconscience plays too big of a role in attraction for a girl to be able to give great advice. Girls usually give good advice on how to be a good husband....not on how to attract them.
I had a huge long post on my input, but I accidently hit the back button and deleted it, so here is a very vague post.
There are 3 steps in getting a woman to sleep with you. Step 1 is Attraction. If she invited you to her house, she is attracted to you. Step 2 is Comfort. I'm sure she feels that you won't rape or beat her, otherwise she wouldn't have invited you. Step 3 is the easiest. Step 3 is seduction. This is the Mystery Method.
As long as you don't do anything stupid, you're pretty much in. What I have done a few times, and this has NEVER failed, even when I was just starting in this stuff, is after the dinner or whatever, offer her a massage. They will usually get in their bra and lay down on the ground. If not, be a man and pull it over her head while she is laying down. Give her a full body massage, then just go in for the kiss.
There is almost NO game needed. You already have attraction and comfort. Seduction is usually just making the move and not diving into her panties in the first 30 seconds of kissing her.
The Mystery Method M3 Model is divided into three steps: Attraction, Comfort and Seduction, each of which is divided into 3 phases (that are in turn divided up into another 3 phases). The Method teaches a set of strategies and tactics for each phase to successfully move the interaction forward toward the end goal, which is the creation of an intimate sexual relationship.
Step 1: Attraction
The goals of the 'Attraction' phase are: to start a conversation with the target ('Opening'); demonstrate high 'value' to the 'target' in order to build her attraction to the player ('Female to Male interest'); and to appear to become increasingly attracted to her, for reasons other than her looks, while making her increasingly invested in the interaction ('Male to Female interest').
Step 2: Comfort
In the 'Comfort' phase, one should attempt to establish rapport, trust, connection and a sense that the interaction is real and genuine. According to the Mystery Method, "the game is played in comfort". It is the longest and most crucial step and generally takes several hours, possibly over the course of several days, to complete. Mystery writes that of the average 4 to 10 hours (cumulatively) it takes to build a connection sufficient for the initiation of a sexual relationship, as much as 90% will be spent in the comfort-building phase.
Step 3: Seduction
The 'Seduction' phase is the physical escalation towards sex and dealing with a woman's natural apprehension towards sex with a new partner.
That is from wikipedia ---- it might help explain things.
3rd date is go.
Ask her if she like to roll them raw.
She at least likes you. Sushi is expensive and difficult to make (so I hear). I wouldn't just make sushi randomly for one of my friends. Then again, I'm a guy, and I like sushi so much that if a female friend was going to make it for me, I'd be happy for the free sushi even if I didn't get laid.
PS. in for update
"Three date theory" wasn't it?
take your time, dont worry about the sex.....the less you want it, the less needy you are, vibe with her and connect with her on an emotional level, talk about your life, funny stories and goals....but make it interesting
Cannot find that book on amazon. Link?