I am still having issues with girls who have highly promiscuous pasts. I am familiar with Secret Society, and I am familiar with Madonna/Whore. Sex is normal and women love it. Do I just have oldschool, or falsely-conditioned beliefs, then, that sex should only happen between people who actually have strong feelings for each other? My biggest fear is falling in love with a girl who used to be a whore (lots of promiscuous/unattached sex with many different partners). I think it would eat away at me constantly and I don't think I could do it. I wouldn't care if the girl had had tons of sex with a few people. In fact, that would probably make her more attractive to me. That's my situation... I've probably had more actual sex sessions than many people my age. One to three times a day (on average, more on weekends), every day, for LTRs spanning from 1-3 years in length. But my number of partners is very low (can be counted on one hand). I have no real desire to fuck anyone that I'm not potentially interested in having a relationship with. I don't know where this idea comes from. It's frustrating me. Physically, I love sex (obviously). But I can't do it with someone that I'm not interested in, even if they're hot. So are my beliefs that sex should be something special between two people who care about each other wrong? Why am I conditioned like this? How do I fix it? Like when I get married, I expect that my wife and I will have an awesome, special sex life. And if I've fucked 100 chicks before I fuck her, she's not going to feel very special. And if she's fucked 100 guys before she fucks me, I'm not going to feel like what we have is very special. Ok Vag, let me have it.