I was not excited about going to the wine country for a week alone, but suddenly I've found myself in a sittuation where a woman I work with asked me to go out with her to pick up on other singles...in tandem. I thought, hey, this will be great. Nothing better to meet women than an attractive women in my company. Well, we ran around town and didn't talk to anyone else. We enjoyed each other's company apparently. Yesterday she and I went to lunch, I expected a group of her friends in the office, but they went somewhere else. It was just the two of us. She said she was jealous about me going to Napa and said "I want to go." So I'm a dumbass and said, "why don't you." Well today she has plane tickets, I have hotel and vineyard cottage reservations (complimentary because I'm a baller) in the Redwood Forrest, and I'm pretty confused / scared / stupid / wtf is going on? I know, don't date work people. Judging from the emails and constant text messaging from her, I don't really think I'm in the friend zone. I know how to determine if I'm in the friend zone, and will take care of that...but frankly I'm going to wait until I'm drinking wine in the redwood forest on the top of a hill overlooking the vineyard and ocean before I do it. lol Frankly I'm happy to have company from a woman who's attractive, has a job, educated, left her last BF because things were dying and she didn't want to cheat...too bad she works in the same building on different programs.