ok so i finally tried to make things official!

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  1. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    Left her flowers and a note at her work

    roads were too bad to do anything tonight with her so i basically wrote what i feel about her and myself.

    She txt messaged me and said

    "omg thanks for the flowers, this is so overwhelming, give me some time to think, ill be online at 12, please be on!"

    Do i still have a chance or no..... why does she need more time....sounds like my chances are not that great :wtc:
     
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    kai-li New Member

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    I wouldn't be scared. You are lucky you have a lady that thinks about her situations rather than being ruled by emotion.

    How long have you been dating?


    And by official you mean just by seeing only each other right?
     
  3. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    official as in girlfriend and boyfriend

    we have been talking to each other for 2-3 months, been hanging out with each other for a month....

    our date got cancelled today because of the snow storm, i would have done all this in person........just because its more genuine....

    I guess it puts more pressure on her because i am leaving for college tomorrow.....
     
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    Ahhhh yeah. Thats what she is thinking about. Thats a big step for a relationship. She's smart to think about it.

    Good luck, keep us posted on what she tells you later :hug:
     
  5. deznutz

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    :noes: im friggin nervous for some odd reason...and as it gets closer to 12, im getting more depressed because i actually like her. Shes not like the other girls ive dated either (all others attention whores)


    maybe shes thinking of ways to turn me down and still be friends?
     
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  6. Leaden Grudge

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    I'd say the outlook is good. Why else would she really want you to be on?
     
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    Exactly. Its ok to be nervous...
     
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    themacstallion The electric sheep are dreaming up your fate

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    it sounds like a pretty good response from her to me
     
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    She's a woman, there is no telling what she is actually thinking.

    Best of luck
     
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    kaygee08 Get me a Jäger Drip, Nurse!!!

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  11. deznutz

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    Yes, she still hasnt told me officially...she keeps delaying it, but still talks to me....

    I think its a no, just because she keeps delaying things.
     
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    *hugs* I bet it may be because of you going to school.
     
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  14. deznutz

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    Ok she finally told me, i guess she needs to "get to know" me better?
     
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    mkevaldz New Member

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    don't sweat it..that's better than a "I think we make better friends" or a "I don't want to risk ruining our friendship" bit...get to know her better too...good luck and let us know =)
     
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    If you're lucky that means she wants to try your dick on for size first ;)
     
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    :rofl:
     
  18. Fishbait

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    :hsugh:

    never-ever-ever-ever-EVER have the "lets make things official" talk with a girl first... you ALWAYS let them bring it up.
     
  19. LP1095LP

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    Why? I've done it in the past. I however am always nearly certain what the answer will be. It's worked out for me, never been turned down.
     
  20. Ubisquo

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    I got that a while back. Things are still gravy here, she really did just want to spend more time talking, still nothing official, but the feelings are there.

    Maybe you'll get this situation. :)
     
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    kinda sounds like a high school relationship... boyfriend/girlfriend... interesting... but what the hell... good move though... I think you are in
     
  22. deznutz

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    :noes: i didnt like high school relationships
     
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    Worked for me :bigthumb:

    Anyways.. good luck man. I've made the mistake to rush a relationship once, and I slowed it down, and she eventually came around and her feelings flowed at me.. I'm still with her goin on 6 months :hs:

    I'd say your actions now will determine your fate. You're really going to have to show her who you are and what you want to make of yourself. Confidence plays a good role and you need to be very true to her. Don't let minor things get in your way, and if she likes you for being yourself, she'll chase you down :hsd:
     

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